raw_avocado on Nostr: So now I am using Jungle and Primal, and some notifications show up on one but not ...

So now I am using Jungle and Primal, and some notifications show up on one but not the other.
Also both laggy, and i have to press buttons more than once sometimes.

I get that there is no consensus for clients, but this is very unusable.
It also seems to me that both clients could try to discover posts more aggressively.

Is this a not-enough-resources-for-servers/relays problem, or something else?

Please, I am not interested in getting told how great this is, or how it’s not a problem for some of you, or that I should build it myself, or any equivalent defensive bullshit.

I am someone who uses social media heavily, and I put a lot of effort and money into creating content, so I want an app that actually works.
In fact, it needs to work at least 10x better than X for me to switch.

I am genuinely asking these questions because I want to understand what is causing these problems.


There is no way I am the only person that has these problems and is bothered by them.