<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>HODL wrote</title><author_name>HODL (npub1rt…djtfs)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1rtlqca8r6auyaw5n5h3l5422dm4sry5dzfee4696fqe8s6qgudks7djtfs</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>I had this friend who had two older sisters. &#xA;&#xA;When he was 13 his dad’s affair was exposed and his parents got divorced. Blindsiding all the kids and destroying what they thought was a happy family. &#xA;&#xA;Later both his sisters got married and promptly cheated on their husbands destroying their marriages. One even getting pregnant by another man. &#xA;&#xA;We were talking about it one day and I said “isn’t it interesting that both of your sisters cheated before they could be cheated on by the men in their life, as sort of a trauma response to the fathers affair”&#xA;&#xA;He looked at me and was like “I don’t think the two things have anything to do with each other” &#xA;&#xA;I think about that conversation a lot. &#xA;</html></oembed>