<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Heather_860 wrote</title><author_name>Heather_860 (npub147…6wu4v)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub147ekwzq0llxhnwj8kg8rd29d7gpskqv8d38ty08m9g9g0xkkmyjq86wu4v</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>People love using idiotic &#34;rules&#34; like that as an excuse to be judgemental assholes. &#xA;&#xA;It would be much better if we taught people to think for themselves. &#xA;&#xA;Most women most often date men a few years older than them. Mary Tyler Moore married a man 20 years younger. Rather than do math to see if she fits into some baseless &#34;rule&#34;, we could just wish her a very happy life because there&#39;s not a shred of evidence that age-gaps are harmful in any way. We really need to STFU and mind our own business :-)</html></oembed>