<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>jakewoodhouse wrote</title><author_name>jakewoodhouse (npub1lt…6k4fh)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1ltz38gwwmmg740r5qlqjn96gth5thv5wmhkwlgqks9lu3485q7jsy6k4fh</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>Something I&#39;ve tried many times, and always fail at:&#xA;&#xA;Not raising my voice, and shouting at my kids, when we do bath and bedtime&#xA;&#xA;Every&#xA;&#xA;Single&#xA;&#xA;Time&#xA;&#xA;One of them triggers the shit out of me... And I start barking orders at them&#xA;&#xA;Unregulates me&#xA;&#xA;Unregulates them&#xA;&#xA;Can take ages to actually calm them down and get them to sleep&#xA;&#xA;On me to improve&#xA;&#xA;</html></oembed>