rich1.0fiddlehodl@nostrplebs.com (npub1kw…khx95)https://yabu.me/npub1kwk98e8t2p3t0um50e3luulxwyt5mtcxvc80w8w89fcuju0dmzfsgkhx95njumphttps://yabu.meI think there's some conflation happening here Being comfortable in the world does not mean being under the illusion that it is always a safe place. (If it were my daughter walking naked and drunk into a party I would wonder where I had gone wrong. If she were raped at that party, I would want the rapist(s) to be prosecuted to the full extent of the law - but I would also wonder how I had failed to teach her basic agency and self preservation.)