rich1.0OceanSlim (npub1zm…v7f60)https://yabu.me/npub1zmc6qyqdfnllhnzzxr5wpepfpnzcf8q6m3jdveflmgruqvd3qa9sjv7f60njumphttps://yabu.meS4 years should be focused on both of you, not yourselves. If you were helping s bud mi e, she should have tried to help. You could have done *something* on her actual birthday, but I wouldn't expect you to go all out.