<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title> wrote</title><author_name>npub1x05hrgua8cgd6grz45dpfql5v702zpgfxw5xhg70g88xpc5atkasyz0je6</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1x05hrgua8cgd6grz45dpfql5v702zpgfxw5xhg70g88xpc5atkasyz0je6</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>I think it&#39;s the bizzaro version of the strategy where men marry the woman that they&#39;re emotionally/intellectually compatible with, but cheat on her with the &#34;hot&#34; girl that evokes sexual desire. They&#39;re doing the inverse where they marry the woman for sex, but desire to cheat on her with the intelligent and interesting woman.</html></oembed>