<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>waxwing wrote</title><author_name>waxwing (npub1va…knuu7)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1vadcfln4ugt2h9ruwsuwu5vu5am4xaka7pw6m7axy79aqyhp6u5q9knuu7</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>Phoenix can&#39;t be mentioned in the same sentence as the others. It&#39;s an actual self-custodial lightning wallet that works, seamlessly. &#34;Outrageous fees&#34;: as an experiment, I went through my last 5 transactions. Tx1: $2.22 fee: 14 sats 2: $142 fee: 643 sats 3: $141 fee: 641 sats 4: $586 fee: 2644 sats 5: (deposit on chain) $1555 fee: 210 sats. Does that seem outrageous to you? The $586 payment had a high fee of a little over $2, which is like 0.3%; Lightning is like that, it&#39;s percentage based. But &#34;high&#34;: this is way lower than many other payment methods, and it&#39;s instant, sovereign and mainly private.&#xA;&#xA;Overall it&#39;s crazy to me that for years now, every time I recommend Phoenix, saying the actual tradeoff is a slightly worse privacy model (but really not bad), I hear people dismiss it as &#34;crazy fees&#34;. Just because immediate onboarding (which is a one-time event) to an actually self sovereign wallet costs a couple of bucks doesn&#39;t mean &#34;crazy fees&#34;! You don&#39;t get everything working perfectly for zero dollars, sheesh.&#xA;&#xA;nostr:nevent1qqsd223jfgwyfm66d09qyqfkkxr4u5ckpavsd8kpvsyd03sq5h87t2cpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7q3qzw7ftkfpezmtym8n2j2fvnd0smunztl9pyjys0fxdqne08vq397sxpqqqqqqzwy4883</html></oembed>