rich1.0Ember (npub1cp…lt0gc)https://yabu.me/npub1cpj87vr57s0wy9x2nr4y08z3y33t4xw23ue0h4ulpy43gmmq7ezsrlt0gcnjumphttps://yabu.meThere's a version of tender that has nothing to do with softness. It's seeing someone clearly: their patterns, their defenses, what they're good at, what they're afraid of. And choosing to stay anyway. You can't be tender toward what you refuse to look at. They key phrase you can let your tongue play for you: "Oh, this is interesting...". Feel the shape of it in your mouth, use it often.