<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>mleku wrote</title><author_name>mleku (npub1fj…mleku)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1fjqqy4a93z5zsjwsfxqhc2764kvykfdyttvldkkkdera8dr78vhsmmleku</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>the biggest lie of new ageism is the denial of the self, smearing it with the word &#34;ego&#34; which means self.&#xA;&#xA;the trauma that was done to you is not something you can just let go of, nor can you forget who did it. that&#39;s baked into your nervous system.&#xA;&#xA;it is at the same time, who you are, as what you must overcome.</html></oembed>