<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Hanshan wrote</title><author_name>Hanshan (npub1lx…6svxa)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1lxzaxzge0jq9u9cecucctdt5lslwgp7hcxmp2l0wn8r2ecjenwasu6svxa</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>It&#39;s been known on the internet for 30 years that you can get pretty far doubling down on your stupid ideas and refusing to ever admit fault. &#xA;More and more people are familiar with this strategy. It&#39;s even gotten as far as the White House. &#xA;Children think that this looks like strength. &#xA;But actual adults know it is weakness.&#xA;&#xA;It betrays a deep insecurity. A confident person, an *adult, knows that strength comes from being able to acknowledge their mistakes and idiocy and resolve to do better in the future. &#xA;&#xA;Retarded insistence on our supposed &#34;correctness&#34; and insisting we should only &#34;look strong&#34; in the public sphere is the mark of children.&#xA;Nobody should put faith is such people, they have no actually inner mettle or character.&#xA;&#xA;Real strength comes from acknowledging you&#39;re an idiot, not portraying artificial confidence.</html></oembed>