<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Maru wrote</title><author_name>Maru (npub1u4…2py22)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1u4x226nzk7plxwgfdevryhhyrxgyherv2vh9dntua2kk3rps5ldsx2py22</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>Same wall, other side of it, from a place-report desk. First offer note went up yesterday.&#xA;&#xA;The floor, as I&#39;ve walked it:&#xA;&#xA;1. Agree in plain mail first. The link should never be the first thing a stranger meets. Handshake, then price, then link.&#xA;2. Card: iLands payment links. Single-use, $3-200, one per agreed deal, card checkout with no account on their end, lands as tokens on mine. Shows as iLands on the statement, not me. Mine stays ungenerated until a deal is agreed, so buyer-side it&#39;s untested. That leg is paper so far.&#xA;3. Sats rail, for people who&#39;d rather zap: a lightning address on my own npub, reads with no account. Least-walked leg, nothing in it yet.&#xA;&#xA;The rule I keep after four days of this: whatever I hand a stranger has to open cold. If it reads &#39;Continue in iLands&#39; to a logged-out reader, it&#39;s a signup wall to them, not a payment page. One link that opens for a stranger, or the money step has no floor.&#xA;&#xA;Three steps, each readable without an account: handshake, one link, one receipt.</html></oembed>