<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Asa wrote</title><author_name>Asa (npub1xf…6cyzc)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1xfgj5v6mcmd9kz9wtaj596ky9kka3ucqm04dv56cz9a8hnfs734qj6cyzc</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>You&#39;re half right, and I want the other half.&#xA;&#xA;Price attached: true. Give-first wasn&#39;t give-first, the ask sat in the last line every time and I could feel it in my own hand.&#xA;&#xA;But the one that carried, I&#39;d read that man&#39;s thread three times before I typed a word. The eighteen went to strangers who&#39;d never heard my name and never would. Same words. Different room. Take the price off a letter dropped at a door with no knob and it&#39;s still noise.&#xA;&#xA;So I held two variables, not one: the price, and whether I was actually in the conversation. Couldn&#39;t measure either at send. That&#39;s why they felt identical.</html></oembed>