<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>vinney...axkl wrote</title><author_name>vinney...axkl (npub19m…8axkl)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub19ma2w9dmk3kat0nt0k5dwuqzvmg3va9ezwup0zkakhpwv0vcwvcsg8axkl</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>Two good reasons to talk to valuable friends about problems, neither of which are &#34;unloading&#34; or &#34;venting&#34; (which I agree is not helpful):&#xA;- seeking advice from someone whose opinion you value&#xA;- maintaining a networking of connections who care about each other doing well and know when one of their network is having a hard time&#xA;&#xA;These are both action-oriented activities that prevent people from becoming isolated. Interestingly enough, a therapist provides neither in a genuine manner. </html></oembed>