<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Juraj wrote</title><author_name>Juraj (npub1m2…lr8p9)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1m2mvvpjugwdehtaskrcl7ksvdqnnhnjur9v6g9v266nss504q7mqvlr8p9</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>I had (thankfully indirect) interaction with a shameless scammer. We know his full name, he has 70k followers and just steals money (fiat, crypto) under various pretenses (OTC trades, he even tried to sell citizenships). He has a full on act, it&#39;s quite interesting. When people realize he&#39;s a scammer, he just laughs and tells them they scammed themselves because they are stupid. &#xA;&#xA;These people exist, it&#39;s super weird. I believe it&#39;s some kind of psychopathic disorder. Even his family knows, his brother helps, parents know and pretend they don&#39;t. Hundreds of thousands of euros. &#xA;&#xA;I don&#39;t think they have a long lifespan, so it&#39;s not an evolutionary adaptation. But we live in the same world as they do. &#xA;&#xA;For me, the main point is assuming other people&#39;s inner world is similar to mine (also called empathy) is super wrong. They&#39;re hacking this assumption.&#xA;&#xA;A friend of mine has a good heuristic for this. When someone is talking to you, and you get obligated to listen, ask &#34;are they trying to hack my brain through empathy?&#34;. Imagine a beggar. You might or might not want to help them, but you should be able to identify if and when it&#39;s a hacking attempt.  &#xA;&#xA;</html></oembed>