<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>jo wrote</title><author_name>jo (npub1pk…nxwks)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1pkx92m60skq9pzs90m3yqq9tvwh03xhzc0haeqqc4exjcu7l6ntsanxwks</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>I&#39;m a survivor of gender violence (dominance and subordination).&#xA;&#xA;What I want is NOT punishment or forgiveness.&#xA;&#xA;It&#39;s ACKNOWLEDGMENT—NOT from the perpetrator, but from the BYSTANDERS. &#xA;The people who ARE PRESENT and do NOTHING when they see the mistreatment.&#xA;&#xA;Acknowledgment of:&#xA;* THAT mistreatment&#xA;* The HARM&#xA;* That it is WRONG. UNACCEPTABLE. PERIOD.&#xA;&#xA;I want the bystanders DENOUNCING that crime. Saying: NO ONE deserves that treatment.&#xA;&#xA;SPEAK UP. STAND UP. STOP THEM.&#xA;&#xA;Shift the shame—leave it OFF victims, put it ON the shoulders of the perpetrator. &#xA;(Perpetrator shamed and embarrassed. NOT victims.)&#xA;&#xA;Acknowledgment of this: NO ONE DESERVES THAT TREATMENT.&#xA;&#xA;Don&#39;t normalize gender violence.&#xA;&#xA;👑⚡🇺🇸</html></oembed>