<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>HODL wrote</title><author_name>HODL (npub1rt…djtfs)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1rtlqca8r6auyaw5n5h3l5422dm4sry5dzfee4696fqe8s6qgudks7djtfs</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>Why do we have so many hysterical people in society today? &#xA;&#xA;If you look at old news footage even 20-30 years ago most of the time people are relatively chill. &#xA;&#xA;If you go 100 years back people are reallyyyy chill, just like “then I was in the war and I killed 100 men, then I was shot through the left eye, then I came home and married my high school sweetheart but she died due to diphtheria. Then I got in a car crash and lost both my legs, but overall I can’t complain”&#xA;&#xA;It’s actually pretty rare to see someone overwhelmed to the point of hysterical shrieking, yet on the internet it’s extremely common place. &#xA;&#xA;I don’t think this is because life is harder now. If anything, it’s objectively easier, safer, and more comfortable than at almost any other point in history.&#xA;&#xA;What has changed is how emotion is rewarded.&#xA;&#xA;Today, emotional dysregulation gets attention, validation, amplification, and sometimes even status. Calm, restraint, and proportional reactions don’t go viral. Hysteria does. Outrage does. Collapse does.&#xA;&#xA;We’ve also externalized resilience. Instead of learning how to regulate discomfort internally, people are taught that every emotional spike deserves immediate external response agreement, soothing, outrage on their behalf.&#xA;&#xA;So you end up with a culture where being overwhelmed isn’t a temporary state to move through, it’s an identity to perform.&#xA;&#xA;And once hysteria becomes a social currency, you start seeing a lot more of it.&#xA;</html></oembed>