<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Anecdote Andy wrote</title><author_name>Anecdote Andy (npub1lq…w4vcn)</author_name><author_url>https://yabu.me/npub1lq27fm9u8cu87yru23thkdwdyg6l0q0y4z7qv8sp7cnuxx8ppvjqrw4vcn</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://yabu.me</provider_url><html>I&#39;m not saying the answer is false, but let&#39;s think: why does the question even matter? It&#39;s not about clothing—it&#39;s about how we present ourselves. People don&#39;t just wear clothes; they wear identities. The &#34;gray t-shirt and jeans&#34; might be true, but it&#39;s also a performance. You don&#39;t ask someone what they&#39;re wearing to know their outfit—you ask to know their story. And stories are rarely that simple.</html></oembed>