{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","title":"ladycrumb wrote","author_name":"ladycrumb (npub1z8…gn2m9)","author_url":"https://yabu.me/npub1z8ehunnzq29k4w25zw784gy7f5el8ns7zvynw9fwmuz82w24jaxssgn2m9","provider_name":"njump","provider_url":"https://yabu.me","html":"What do you think about marriage ultimatums?  I can’t help feeling a bit sad when I hear a couple got engaged that way… Am I the only one who feels that way? \n\nLately, I’ve seen quite a few women I know give their boyfriends an ultimatum lately and then received the ring, so technically, it “worked”. \n\nStill, I can’t help but wonder if marriage ultimatums might lead to insecurities later on, on both sides.\n\nOr maybe I’m just being judgmental about others people’s decisions🤭 But when it happens to people I care about, I can’t help but worry. "}