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  <title>Nostr notes by regular violet :heart_bi:</title>
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      <title type="html">There&amp;#39;s a single Froot Loop in my herb bed? ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs94szhdja63483q5m0mu002049x4xdja2z3e35wmgugp9z78exa0q2gef7g&#39;&gt;nevent1q…ef7g&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;There&amp;#39;s a single Froot Loop in my herb bed?&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src=&#34;https://mstdn.games/system/media_attachments/files/116/585/368/399/227/459/original/65726ccc6a889397.jpg&#34;&gt; &lt;br/&gt;
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    <updated>2026-05-16T17:13:28Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">The line at the greenhouse was absolutely bananas today. ...</title>
    
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      The line at the greenhouse was absolutely bananas today.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#gardening #bloomscrolling&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src=&#34;https://mstdn.games/system/media_attachments/files/116/585/232/521/324/230/original/3ff0405e5af9b25d.jpg&#34;&gt; &lt;br/&gt;
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    <updated>2026-05-16T16:39:47Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I have always been under the impression, from having grown up ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs2dhmj5ksqx6kandm96dfaspedhu75xswhx3szf9af7u2vsufmdpq4curkh&#39;&gt;nevent1q…urkh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I have always been under the impression, from having grown up around this kind of thing, that they hate their lives so much and have so thoroughly bought into the idea that they don&amp;#39;t deserve better, that they want anyone who thinks they are &amp;#39;above&amp;#39; that resignation to be punished. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Anyone who speaks against unfair systems and demands dignity and better treatment is &amp;#39;weaker&amp;#39; than they are for not just taking it and accepting being miserable. So they side with the people saying the others should be quiet. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;And they never put it together that that&amp;#39;s where their misery comes from, too.
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    <updated>2026-02-09T17:48:04Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Am I the only one who can&amp;#39;t understand Bluey? Not the accent, ...</title>
    
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      Am I the only one who can&amp;#39;t understand Bluey? Not the accent, I watch a lot of non-US TV. It just all sounds muffled to me.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Maybe I just rely on lip reading for accents and I never knew that about myself. But I feel like I&amp;#39;ve watched a ton of non-US animation so IDK.
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    <updated>2026-02-06T12:11:56Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">This is also how I make my tea and when I went looking for ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqszhng5c3u0phd6tv8tg3y2thwggg029rewyxj6svpfyxawkn0yfhcg48kg0&#39;&gt;nevent1q…8kg0&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This is also how I make my tea and when I went looking for replacement beakers online seemed to find that it&amp;#39;s not a common practice.
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    <updated>2026-01-19T15:59:15Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">It has been an adjustment to not assume everything said to or ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs29j5ue2vf4tfkd8wxklucc9f65r0ltk03024n44heulex0zhncmc6fmdg8&#39;&gt;nevent1q…mdg8&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It has been an adjustment to not assume everything said to or near me is intended to start a debate. I never got into the arguments, but I definitely assumed the worst by the end of my time on Twitter.
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    <updated>2026-01-16T14:23:53Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I feel like a lot of people have a relationship to the idea of ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdktylzp93q70xujnywwg3dd2leepe3ec258y8jtjh6r49fssgatgzypjmkypn30z42mr5u43g92a7u70adtvqeu92u7yc2t2ha3c4wrswjz8tq9m" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs9pq3ns2p63q9asenldaz3l0vjsjwapus5nextvx3q2uff50n4h5cn9zrjm&#39;&gt;nevent1q…zrjm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I feel like a lot of people have a relationship to the idea of &amp;#39;blame&amp;#39; that I just don&amp;#39;t understand. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Like, acknowledging that C happened because you did A or because you didn&amp;#39;t know B, is exactly the same to them as telling them they did C on purpose and with malicious intent... which is bad and you&amp;#39;re mean for saying it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;So they just double down on I DIDN&amp;#39;T KNOW and the incuriousness that keeps them &amp;#39;blameless&amp;#39;
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    <updated>2025-10-30T19:12:45Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I often feel they look a bit staged, and /planning/ to show ...</title>
    
    <link rel="alternate" href="https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspkjlfh0kz54j2p884hw63v5vww9x9apwa4srtjvylllja5ue0ymgzypjmkypn30z42mr5u43g92a7u70adtvqeu92u7yc2t2ha3c4wrswjl8fp90" />
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqs8a89mreaplwmrkdcmx2t7xjaly6nahfdu7tjlsay6uccwcplj88sgnzczu&#39;&gt;nevent1q…zczu&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I often feel they look a bit staged, and /planning/ to show disappointment in a girl is even wilder to me.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;But, yeah, even taking them at face value, I cannot understand the purpose of having a reveal, recording it, and posting it if one gender is going to upset you like that. 🫤
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    <updated>2025-10-05T13:11:04Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I have, once again, powered through my large bag of plain black ...</title>
    
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      I have, once again, powered through my large bag of plain black #tea (Assam) and am left with only... 32 small bags and samples of flavored and herbal teas to choose from. 🙁&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;A cupboard full of tea and nothing to drink.
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    <updated>2025-10-04T13:48:24Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I have no idea what Silksong is and at this point I&amp;#39;m too ...</title>
    
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      I have no idea what Silksong is and at this point I&amp;#39;m too afraid to ask.
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    <updated>2025-09-04T19:17:55Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve noticed companies aren&amp;#39;t asking if I want to opt out ...</title>
    
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      I&amp;#39;ve noticed companies aren&amp;#39;t asking if I want to opt out of Mother&amp;#39;s Day this year, and that&amp;#39;s honestly one of the more baffling things the Right threw a fit about.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The absolute pointlessness of it. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Is it woke to have a dead mom? Or do they just think a gender they don&amp;#39;t like hates the word &amp;#34;Mother&amp;#34;?
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    <updated>2025-05-08T20:20:47Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;m trying to get into the spirit of &amp;#34;remember when we ...</title>
    
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      I&amp;#39;m trying to get into the spirit of &amp;#34;remember when we used to post things just to post things&amp;#34; and share that I made this preserved lemon shortbread. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It&amp;#39;s fine. I&amp;#39;ll keep working on it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This is my favorite tea cup, though.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;#tea #food #TeaTime #baking&lt;br/&gt; &lt;img src=&#34;https://mstdn.games/system/media_attachments/files/114/382/831/385/584/462/original/37ed920bf63f485c.jpg&#34;&gt; &lt;br/&gt;
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    <updated>2025-04-22T17:42:30Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">It strikes me as that sort of Douglas Adams-style absurdist humor ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsp65fe372rs2r653e2ssrqde8fd2ym887r57czffrh3wt895k0n0svv45e6&#39;&gt;nevent1q…45e6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It strikes me as that sort of Douglas Adams-style absurdist humor that I find funny but most people in my life seem to find irritating.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&amp;#34;The ships hung in the sky in much the same way that bricks don&amp;#39;t.&amp;#34;
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    <updated>2025-04-01T11:55:35Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I want to make an effort to read blogs and other RSS feeds again. ...</title>
    
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      I want to make an effort to read blogs and other RSS feeds again. If you write about anything below (or similar) can you share your links? And please boost?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;food, cooking, coffee, tea, wine&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;food justice, feminism, solarpunk, lgbtq rights, climate change&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;books, fantasy, mystery, romance, libraries &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;gardening, photography, art, crafts, fiber arts, pottery, flowers, pets, gaming, puzzles
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    <updated>2025-02-19T12:18:25Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I don&amp;#39;t really want to be on the biggest social media ...</title>
    
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      I don&amp;#39;t really want to be on the biggest social media platform, I didn&amp;#39;t find Twitter very fun towards the end. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I do want to &amp;#39;talk about what you love, not what you hate.&amp;#39; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I just want to do it with people who understand that &amp;#34;I don&amp;#39;t see any bigotry here&amp;#34; isn&amp;#39;t a flex so much as an admission that they don&amp;#39;t follow or believe marginalized people here.
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    <updated>2024-11-19T15:21:16Z</updated>
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    <id>https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsw2nyjwawtn42076seexcjlmefuvvf7gwqslc5hl87fshjttdd4tgzypjmkypn30z42mr5u43g92a7u70adtvqeu92u7yc2t2ha3c4wrswjscg4xn</id>
    
      <title type="html">I very genuinely don&amp;#39;t know how to get screenshots from my ...</title>
    
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      I very genuinely don&amp;#39;t know how to get screenshots from my Switch and PS4 without posting to social media platforms I haven&amp;#39;t used in years. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;And what are the chances I can even do so without a sub on either anymore?
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    <updated>2024-11-10T13:00:22Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I&amp;#39;ve heard that a lot as an atheist. Had someone ask me what ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsfhcl5awh5p00qymn9vlzkvararn907ngpnelzzw7wlkg3va32dusu4dwr3&#39;&gt;nevent1q…dwr3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&amp;#39;ve heard that a lot as an atheist.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Had someone ask me what prevents me from cheating on my spouse without religion.
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    <updated>2024-09-06T12:44:24Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">This one absolutely blew my mind when I first read it. Not ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsxqmp9xj9kz44sngadaqml659wnpzyrdt4z9qa554757n7mh5q5fcz4vge6&#39;&gt;nevent1q…vge6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This one absolutely blew my mind when I first read it. Not adhering to legal/social rules that I only begrudgingly accept to begin with? Sure. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Breaking my OWN moral/ethical code when no one is around or it is an inconvenience? WTF
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    <updated>2024-09-06T12:37:34Z</updated>
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