2026-05-14T18:08:03Z https://yabu.me Winter Jerrica https://yabu.me/npub1qy075e4x6jxmzv578jphkdv2gm3rn3dvuefffwhxwxfh9tjrrg0s3agc87 https://media.spinster.xyz/54949e6f1f88e275308942c24705c45509b0715cb55b3955194f5d6e541e8b6f.webp https://media.spinster.xyz/54949e6f1f88e275308942c24705c45509b0715cb55b3955194f5d6e541e8b6f.webp https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsytfwew2qanxefnsxytjzj4062jf27cxpdsm3npqan2wt54dqn6eczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp765mz80 A few years ago: stop shaming actors for getting cosmetic surgery. If it gives them confidence they should be allowed to have it judgment free.<br/><br/>Now: cosmetic surgery is preventing actors from emoting. All the women look the same and all the men look like they&#39;re melting. It breaks immersion in many cases. It&#39;s out of control!<br/><br/>Feminists who were anti cosmetic surgery all along: 🤦‍♀️ 2026-03-09T14:29:46Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdw2kseeznfex6er3kczhecgt45m93hfvq2kpqfp0t9lznk67xa5czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7cklkz5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0ruwkmp3zhuszgztmd6hat37y0477euf4hn8w0dv6g994ny6jscgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qsnwrjp'>nevent1q…wrjp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have a friend who really likes Fourth Wing. I probably won&#39;t be reading it any time soon because my &#34;to read&#34; shelf is a bit full. 2026-02-24T06:37:57Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspewshz40n6s46wv295wj7e6pywaskpvlq5ddstdpjqxx35ezvaxczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp73yzs73 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvhdk0qnagrzygyc2pfg6tg9zd57kdgf2kkdz8fl0z0py5a4w6uvqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qe70yry'>nevent1q…0yry</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m catching up on the Hunger Games now and have been liking it. Not in a happy fun time way, obviously. I get why that was the YA dystopian series that blew up. It&#39;s bleak, but it gives you a lot to think about. I just started the last audiobook. 2026-02-24T06:36:20Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsq52z4qpktyp3glctlnn2t3duh088g3y88qxmhchhhhfex0c3ngcqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7pjgpwq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9k608l2gn0hsmv5w5nlhh496ehwktrx2e5s6k57hvxnm7edty6tqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qstxp4y'>nevent1q…xp4y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I read about 2 chapters of the first book because my grandma gifted it to me (because it was what was popular for girls my age at the time), decided it wasn&#39;t for me and moved on. I watched the films with my friend many years later and... I guess I&#39;m one of those annoying ironic &#34;fans&#34;? The movies are not good, but I had fun laughing at them. The pregnancy stuff in Breaking Dawn pt. 1 was disturbing, I enjoyed that one the least. And of course what happened with Jacob was a travesty. The baseball scene is the best scene and the soundtrack has some gems. 2026-02-24T01:39:55Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspszp6tphruhlzmhp3swgmv64925rfp9dpe4yuhajzduyayy85s8gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7ky5nvn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstgv2tjckt3zr28tky7flred7j4n3e05ual0nm8qxx9qkuxz07fwgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qjyxe5u'>nevent1q…xe5u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Could be. I&#39;d say it&#39;s more similar to Buffy than HP. 2026-02-24T00:29:25Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstlfedugs5yrs8t48pdvk5un96ek9awrrfdq53pusqxdvhfmxc6xgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp704p0e4 I agree with most of her points, however:<br/><br/>A) I&#39;ve never heard of Twilight being a Harry Potter fic and that idea makes zero sense. I recall back during Twilight fever they released Wuthering Heights, Romeo &amp; Juliet, and Pride &amp; Prejudice with Twilight themed covers because Stephanie Meyer said those were some of her biggest inspirations (in general). I would assume the series is therefore a synthesized &#34;fanfic&#34; of those books, with some vampire lit thrown in, and not Harry Potter.<br/><br/>B) She comes down very negatively on &#34;self-indulgent&#34; writing. While I agree that OVERLY self-indulgent writing is bad, noticeable, and potentially damaging, self-indulgent writing as a concept is more neutral to me. I think a bit of self-indulgence, in some cases, can be the best choice narratively, neither diminishing the plot/characters nor preventing the writer from improvement.<br/><br/>C) Admittedly I found certain comments she made to be a bit pretentious. I&#39;m easily annoyed by snooty &#34;tastemaker&#34; attitudes. This is not me saying her intent was to be demeaning, just acknowledging that I have a bias and some things she said activated it.<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/nevent1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqjgqtl4q99u7tywa7chscc2lvqwdgfcgzgltryysjvfvfzls3dt3qdx8d77" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">nevent1q…8d77</a></span> </div> You might like this video, if you have the time. <br/><br/>Fanfiction Has Destroyed Writing (And Everything Else) <br/><br/>About an hour. <br/><br/><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3NPxraALq0">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3NPxraALq0</a> </blockquote> 2026-02-24T00:05:25Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs29k829c0erda8kp7jkn4r8m887tamjm6whl6jckaasfkhtkl5qhqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7pnnkwa In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsden2eg3tw0pl6hjlf94p7yewanwnu8xcdmd35g5s2neketmjz47gpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43q725zt2'>nevent1q…5zt2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So true.<br/>I think very few, if any, of the current slate of authors/writers have been untouched by online fandom, so they either bring the mentality with them or they actively try to appeal to that mentality to get their work on the map. 2026-02-22T17:28:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr0ap6pz8v3ykefddqn4h3a9vq9r2am93lvfzjkc57dhh9tntktrszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7npcjjj Something something fandom&#39;s current obsession with polyamory comes from a fear of making &#34;wrong&#34; decisions and undervaluing platonic connections and has nothing to do with chemistry, attraction, or &#34;open-mindedness.&#34; 2026-02-22T16:34:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx3rp7gdpaetadd390zjrx6x75gt7ym7wwdtss28pqzcyg6fg70eczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp70zltlu Local theater is putting on Rocky Horror for Valentine&#39;s Day because it&#39;s the only thing that makes them money. <br/>In light of this, please list the weirdest holiday you can think of to go see Rocky Horror. I&#39;ll start:<br/><br/>St. Patrick&#39;s Day 2026-02-13T14:25:15Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgdjw9rdr5c788ckrydhdlymsfkkka70t9hj0lve84sjdcdke9dxqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp70ynzwq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfmzaegzah83kdunsq2lsww0pd964mfd43myy2x5y5uyvc8gaq2gcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43q872x64'>nevent1q…2x64</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;ve had this issue at movies too, and it&#39;s no easier to take there. A guy brought his son to the first Star Wars sequel trilogy movie and the kid didn&#39;t know who anyone was or what they were doing. The kid was too young to understand STAR WARS. 2026-02-08T03:23:34Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsw7fcwz8ltkxatwd7hnurcjmtysm0ymj9wwdh4eepgzr4yuhg0tvqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7w98zx3 I do try to be sympathetic to parents at the theater, but can they PLEASE make sure the show/movie is age appropriate for their children? And I&#39;m not even talking about sexual content, violence, or anything like that. If a child cannot follow what&#39;s happening narratively without help, because it&#39;s currently too sophisticated in concept, they shouldn&#39;t be in that theater. You cannot expect a child to have, or learn, good theater etiquette when they don&#39;t understand what&#39;s happening in front of them. They&#39;re going to get bored and be disruptive. They&#39;re going to ask you what&#39;s happening CONSTANTLY. Shushing them isn&#39;t going to help. They&#39;re going to kick the seats. They&#39;re going to do anything to not feel bored and it&#39;s not going to be fun for them or anyone sitting near them. 2026-02-08T02:17:02Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy3tjkjzsrhcxzx0263a9ahjuftjm5fytl483dk5fhpwmtryv40nczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7ccqs46 When you go to a genuinely beautiful city and there&#39;s a TIM on every other street corner. 🙃 2026-02-08T00:52:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxagmp84kvn8wmwa0dpy7lypvzn8m2xpyeqhp4k5cv2c4jvdjpsegzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7pxmmzj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz4fmtqdft26jd002u4ve3wx7kljwyzrjzm5awx9l3muyua0yfwgspz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qh2d26k'>nevent1q…d26k</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>No, they&#39;re probably straight Drag Race fans. Which might be more embarrassing. 2026-02-08T00:51:31Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx34zv9q94g3txj6ju8umgqdpsq06zuhzlqfx2dn62xycfsy3ptsczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7wqchnx The Canadian ice dance pair has an obnoxiously drag queen inspired rhythm dance. 2026-02-07T04:50:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrvwewjkqquu0f0jfr48rnm7lqrar2ap0jace470sxghfzy6qw89czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7e95dhv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9t4f9w9yuxcv0wyqjndh2tns56e0l46va8jwpxl7x8s2ydp46jegpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qytfr2j'>nevent1q…fr2j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Maybe I watch too many baking shows. It looks like she tried to mirror glaze herself. 2026-02-05T02:28:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs98dv0zl5xjd640shhxwm8q875jumheg8ddd8fyyk7zcwl8updw4czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp730rd0p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqkkf4rnspm3nck6kgdhthy5n747efmsu2hqksdkf7wyfsnqajtuqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43q9wynas'>nevent1q…ynas</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That&#39;s the other half of the issue. 2026-02-04T21:30:31Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs85v83gh39jdk74lx6cfu09xsrnz2mu5uu3y7hek8h2vhp450wjrgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7tfamcq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0v8nft4g0l3ml268q5zhtl324nh3cghgsaamcheqdhp08rkvddmgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43q0l74z4'>nevent1q…74z4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Fashion designers love coming up with new and creative ways to torture women&#39;s breasts. 2026-02-04T19:13:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxsgd388up76k2tz48ucp6v0qrgec9y8zmun2kvl0vr4f9nzceymqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7fjukpj I&#39;m not surprised by Chappel Roan&#39;s fake nipple piercing look at the Grammy&#39;s (or whichever award show it is, I genuinely don&#39;t care) considering she credits most of her style to drag queens. 2026-02-03T22:27:58Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrtjttk3nk6rhdyg0a6xfjstch2gdzeujhzpl7ruz0f043txu32jqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7gn9rnj One of the few advantages of being a dance teacher is you can show up to work looking like you just woke up and no one questions it. 2026-02-03T22:01:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszenupkcqtme0u2wfsewwzlwrtedd896aspmx3klj8z0p29pjwa9szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp76cwmzw If the first part of your video about why the ending of How I Met Your Mother went horribly wrong is just rambling about how transphobic the show is in retrospect to justify continuing to enjoy it, I&#39;m not going to watch it. 2026-02-03T21:14:10Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfmzuh09t6khv973tvhtgnrc407jzd3xnwxc3lsggtua2c5r7w6qgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7vh28lf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr098wclpxmft5dzfnkr6jedr6k65kypgezc8m7zckgwpc2r9s9sgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qafpvcf'>nevent1q…pvcf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;ll have to look it up. 2026-02-02T18:10:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstcqlj0t8z459s0w3c4zsk4rd5wzmf65vjagdhu62ln70gfh7ytlqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp72wty44 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfewy3wu3f3w42qpd0qu7c0m28apdqzrrcwdqaaagf3t8f5nsvajqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qzl8vvg'>nevent1q…8vvg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The dancers killed it, but definitely in my top 10 strangest musical number premises. 2026-02-02T00:37:38Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv7jm58993zwekjfzdkttp4fmaefc6lyk9qvfxutj5npqvuuplhlqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp75h74x0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxqldqxcynf3edunwwrlvckj0plpllpyu787mlq8z2dtms725tvfcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qcqrtf2'>nevent1q…rtf2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Sorry, let me play my tiny violin a little louder. 2026-01-19T15:57:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfs6xwytr0v5galzqlgmzvxvqqvux4kaw42s26ep2cu6yng6t7rzgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7w57rg9 Everything I&#39;ve learned about Heated Rivalry has been unintentional, but to be honest, I highly doubt they got actors who look like real hockey players. 2026-01-19T15:55:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr9r9405js23c0wz3ftqtyap5fqh8798zyhxnxxsyc06n9a8878jqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7kfaq4d So glad I get to live through the era where untrained, reactionary nutjobs get to murder civilians without consequences. 2026-01-10T17:46:29Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswhkk8dwrzl6mwyptgy4jvnhu2ttuwjujyfck5f2vkx52x8sd9hmqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7lnrqwm Online education is now killing snow days. I was homeschooled and that&#39;s still infuriating to me. 2026-01-05T16:52:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszwhgdyd04v8rksahwnpnvpam5srkd2pztytmmet2ccn2u95v4j6gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp78hk9ad Whoever said women talk too much never had to listen to teenage boys at a fencing club. They WILL NOT shut up, geez. 2025-12-16T19:44:41Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8f6aa6dklvzw8a3gcf7s8hc3vd8umflr6058qj7sl3dfwep4yksszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp745t60f A friend of mine was saying that there&#39;s now a building code in place that requires certain new buildings to have a lactation room, which is interesting. 2025-12-14T14:21:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspmvzzs2stg03f9xn6umq0k8j7knwdelv4hewx4z4cyghl22uf2pczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7sdfk4h Apparently Nemo, the Swiss guy who won Eurovision in 2024, is attempting to return his trophy because the ESC committee is staying true to their decision to allow Israel&#39;s continued participation. It&#39;s such a pointless, attention-seeking gesture, but he&#39;s non-binary so being high on his own supply was never off the table. 2025-12-11T21:15:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswlyksuak56zgdxdtlx4sf8y6jw5d4v6ygjzr4kxh5rhn46al2llgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7hnvd8c Been wondering recently if some therapists are relieved when a client turns out to be terfy. Out of the captured fields, it&#39;s probably the most difficult to be gender critical there. 2025-12-11T20:39:45Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs27qh7z26m0vrxn8q0g96ve3c0dzge59ds8t30auapvxj9h539x9qzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7pchw5f It&#39;s incredibly frustrating to find a video on an interesting, uncommon topic only to find out the YouTuber is nearly insufferable. 2025-12-11T06:30:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy2u36uvtxhh38xyy3hzpvnxq2e5x7neef3zujpkn9jtfy3rqdmfszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7e8r9yd Trans ID is appealing to those who desire an entirely external locus of control. They need something to blame besides themself for EVERYTHING, even when the only fair conclusion is that they are at fault or share in the fault. They are either too narcissistic or too deep in self-loathing to accept anything else. 2025-12-09T20:39:10Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp8wp4htfypd28fuxyln4fapfwzxw086qulnd2nwrapmwlrjl5f0gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7f69vx9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs90xhajsnyzr0ru4gr4050dm228vm6nvmud5lds4qqlf5tvsq8flqpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7hte4yc'>nevent1q…e4yc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yes, but they pretend that that&#39;s not the joke. They don&#39;t laugh, they fawn. That&#39;s what&#39;s weird about it these days. 2025-12-06T18:12:06Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst5uef47yavutzpg50ge6y2k5yjuse3amf23wdss5zjtq46typ7lczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp78j8vqh Look, Stranger Things is nowhere near a masterpiece or anything, but the way people are talking about it is ridiculously negative. They are channeling the worst types of Star Wars fans here. 2025-12-04T18:25:18Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8964wjqv4x0ede2v6wfflucsf3ehfj3lyvnkc60tmhkzpv88g0dczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7lv8ry5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxxh7qfartzz9025eyz2wkzgm8d4kj9zjwllsgpxcslhalcjh3ekqpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7uxl0ht'>nevent1q…l0ht</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is going to diminish the field of nursing and harm the US medical field as a whole. The current administration doesn&#39;t care if you die, so long as their pockets are full. This is coming off of COVID where nurses were overworked and stressed to the point of harm and lauded as heroes. 2025-12-04T18:22:30Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxeu6jdczypjfjahnt52ek2l9g706edkewsm5fe862fk5966vqamgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7vkkdg5 Doing theater can have many positive impacts, especially for people who feel outcasted, but in a weird way it can also give these people poor boundaries. Especially when it comes to things like changing clothes/states of dress, physical contact, and volume. They will take behaviors that are uniquely allowed in the theater setting to other parts of their life and assume everyone else will either be comfortable with that (because everyone doing theater is) or won&#39;t maliciously take advantage (if they haven&#39;t been in a toxic theater environment yet). They get myopic about it and don&#39;t make a good distinction between the controlled theater setting and the more variable, wider world. 2025-12-03T19:47:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspn9uqqe9zyyjxxx0umkdxzf3x7q7gq74ayumxccalzqnu6y37ddqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7f3qxj8 When you love/care about someone who&#39;s in the transcult, and you are not a cultist yourself, I think there&#39;s a certain point where you start to be willfully ignorant of certain things about them as a way of protecting your psyche. You can only handle so much pain, confusion, betrayal, disappointment, disgust, etc. So you just... avoid exposure to those things. You get them piecemeal, when you are absolutely forced to, and hopefully your mental fortitude is good in those moments. It&#39;s a dumpster fire when your fortitude is low. The rest you ignore because you have to, or you&#39;ll be trapped in a very bad psychological place. 2025-12-03T00:06:25Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsf9gd50vn2jjzvtzqsx3t962k3h8a45t9lsptw77j5s57s66k2h7czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7pfk2gs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx2ldnjgdwl9n66ech9ruvftjh0ux8wyy2a7nz84x2gt8d9hfelxqpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7v3nxs4'>nevent1q…nxs4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Not clear, since the clients only show up briefly. But she said she&#39;ll be having more surgeries (already had a mastectomy) which makes me worry. 2025-12-01T05:09:02Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9m03wg3pxgvx9z6whs0669tt2tfnv65f5a7ysuhdm5xyd5vzzurgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7sl0kll Was watching the Repair Shop, which is usually a relaxing show for me. One of the clients in this episode is a TIF unfortunately. And of course they have to make a big deal about how brave &#34;he&#34; is and how happy &#34;he&#34; is after the hormones and surgeries. 2025-12-01T05:03:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrrykmcwph8l5lvhhf83k49egvpsnevcvhdmjv34e43ffs0c5cmqszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7wrcw8e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdyqg0gwj85a6z94k4nuvt7m8f9acgytv4zxq4xyrxjlk9ht2awxgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7jz3hdt'>nevent1q…3hdt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Millennial born in the early 90&#39;s. Apparently I dodged a bullet. 2025-11-30T18:19:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxkq20mwv6mck40x4clz5p27yj79r7zzyqf3rjwtwpqmt80xykadgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7kqy7fd I understand why people pirate movies/TV shows, but I&#39;ve had sketch websites that I didn&#39;t even want to go to fill my computer with viruses. I&#39;m not interested in that happening again. 2025-11-24T15:54:54Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8d5u0plj7ja56gg2ngmuf9hqqsf38hmvy2xkewt64pnuh54scf5czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7l374k5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0gutw604ptux6rre4uamufxl83h6yeelctw3dajavg9r6vud9t6spzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z736vwuy'>nevent1q…vwuy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Mr. Brightside and Come on Eileen are probably the best songs on there. 2025-11-24T01:09:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp32fggtk03sttsz80m23h9h9sehelqvjyq99slv8hvpz8wnjafgqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7hjkkx7 I used to think that a comedy series about a local/community theater was a great idea. However, I now realize it probably wouldn&#39;t survive long unless genderists suddenly became cool with people making jokes about them and their absurd behavior. 2025-11-20T17:23:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx2kr6l09a92z0ptgpndqfyamesl8jxfzj2s2zazq0c9tulr2zrcczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7q7sdlv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsglmjuusf2pyrx0me6zuc6dylc630fsz4phkad2dmjx5z4jc4d68qpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7uspphl'>nevent1q…pphl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Resignation from what? 2025-11-17T18:19:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0su5aqxr468atxyyx3ta7vx0dzhnv5w9t2g7kfu30cagltpj37lczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp79lkmpe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfka4s86sn3e7l20gv7wygcgzeryy7euqgv9e5wpqtg5qu9fq3a4spzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z787xrmm'>nevent1q…xrmm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That&#39;s kind of you to say. I also fantasized about clotheslining the skateboarder who zoomed past people on a narrow bridge at my university. 2025-11-16T20:52:28Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdwak5qm0pwyx2v0ak3prr5jyte88p7ds56swdwfwqcv8h28svgrszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7uj5td4 I don&#39;t often wish ill on strangers, but there’s something very satisfying about seeing the jerk who&#39;s been lane-jumping and tailgating everyone because they can&#39;t stand going the speed limit get stuck at the same stoplight as you. 2025-11-16T20:11:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdnujjgy3tqs5y8t09zj5l7glwt25j2chn5uy0y6mx279ugwmru6gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp74r3rx5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsymgawdmcsy53z6p6q3whn4fxljw2t4dxgllu4hnc9qfepswttpdcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7pngx4f'>nevent1q…gx4f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Maybe Saw is Willy Wonka for adults. 2025-11-16T04:38:30Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8y0uty224c94cmkan72tuhmcrdpgn3ul4jdeug5cctf9c54pvy7qzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7y4d285 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswpde6jwpfszlemykczhqw2k3sq869yuuycz047f4klafazw5euccpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7tjss3j'>nevent1q…ss3j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah. Studio execs are not just greedy, but also incredibly risk-averse. Even more so nowadays, IMO. I don&#39;t think a lot of the general audience understands that when they discuss the entertainment industry. 2025-11-12T16:55:36Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsz7gcsnp3m0vuevnej3amy8nt7fuujurw6fcral6n3p9xzxqt2rfgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp72x5la0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0hahu34tnntxz5ktdnvx4sufxvmcqgjwctnu247z30mm7k8d7z7spzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z74962xe'>nevent1q…62xe</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yeah, I&#39;m not ruling out the possibility. If they think putting their thumbs on the scale will result in more money, they will do it with zero qualms. It&#39;s just that any sweeping claim about change in the entertainment industry has multiple causes. 2025-11-12T16:10:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszsma4xyz4twakykmk3dm55adwafrwrenyassahkdnsfr7u0njh7gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7r3ylle The rollback of DEI initiatives could be PART of the cause, but the cancelation hammer in the age of streaming has been merciless to everyone. A show is extremely lucky if it survives past two seasons. A common complaint among viewers is that their favorite show was canceled on a cliffhanger. Since there was an influx of LGBtqwerty characters and stories, more of those will be on the chopping block than ever before.<br/>But also, execs care about money, often to the exclusion of all else. If any topic, genre, or medium seems like it will make less money, they will drop it like a hot potato. &#34;Kweerness&#34; is no exception, and I don&#39;t see why anyone expected it to be.<br/><br/><a href="https://vexxed.org/o/GenderCritical/6374/staggering-number-of-trans-and-gay-tv-characters-axed-under-trump-era-rollback-o">https://vexxed.org/o/GenderCritical/6374/staggering-number-of-trans-and-gay-tv-characters-axed-under-trump-era-rollback-o</a> 2025-11-12T15:33:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqtc5sflg8m4emm55cfttr7cfacff4szrqj9mzhm4fjgd06dq754szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp77ecw7e I don&#39;t know why TIMs think tucking their shirts in will make them look more feminine. It doesn&#39;t look like you have a higher waist/prominent hips, it looks like you&#39;re a weirdo who wears his pants too high. 2025-11-12T04:33:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxms9jlzse8hqtxgqy3akln3yvyupxc0mguee48atqhyregf8mytszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7zvhdtd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswhkc2a022h5gvxcgcdc3s7l7hzdxf6rv2j94yarz8atk3f5selsqpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7pje2c2'>nevent1q…e2c2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The 25 year old with the clarinet is easier to exploit. 2025-11-12T04:29:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqp08xk6l2cwsm65ne9exw344urvt65zl3hfcuxp3ek6w0gfugvzgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp776x09n Apparently the Paralympics haven&#39;t yet followed the IOC&#39;s lead in restricting trans participation in women&#39;s sports. Disgusting. 2025-11-11T17:11:58Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfuhl54xke6ehmd2ka3lckkrh7samzen8frjz3le7duvf0zugyymczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7mufk5j In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8uzgl0l2dkeu3msxssua6nelpjr0a7tanzasgczwycjerrcvrdvcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7hz0n3n'>nevent1q…0n3n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I would like to point out that The Simpsons was made by artists and writers. Artists and writers predicted the future, and people are out here saying they are luddites and useless leeches on society. 2025-11-11T17:07:40Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgdx2j5j0fpr5ge7zjfwtp954w4y95zseddu8tjy3f6sjpqdcxlkszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7dy09y7 Hanging out with people my age reminds me why I get along with older people so well. 2025-11-09T08:01:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx0m49p7hua3hsmt6347nx0q8t4t8e4qy8jt00f2x4ru9xd2j2puszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7rcycnc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszezg6ng9zfxyjlm5gkg4lkacm9ky365gsn43lmeftqvvl37uy9lspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z753mcev'>nevent1q…mcev</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ethel Cain said disgusting things online outside of his artist persona, which itself is controversial, and beefed with Lana Del Rey, and people are still kissing his feet. That&#39;s how you know he&#39;s a male artist. 2025-11-08T16:30:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0j69qu3krwrekj3pp3h79wdw9trugm5yfsu2x7tp5jzu2jwv6d5szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7gk9m8w <a href="https://culturecraft.substack.com/p/healing-is-making-us-mean?r=3aln0f&amp;utm_medium=ios&amp;triedRedirect=true">https://culturecraft.substack.com/p/healing-is-making-us-mean?r=3aln0f&amp;utm_medium=ios&amp;triedRedirect=true</a> 2025-11-03T15:51:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg458esqdv0h936jzl4zzz4qek9gvx28srywk2tfwy3krunx5wxdgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7zmmdtx For reasons I won&#39;t disclose, my brother&#39;s trans obsession is going to become 10x worse. The borderline angry pronoun policing has already started. 2025-10-19T15:59:28Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs04q84yjyykujxk5w0jushnjsslphl0v2mm47wz95m63jf36qju6qzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp79atlcu <a href="https://vexxed.org/o/GenderCritical/5792/transgender-fencer-suing-usa-fencing-usopc-over-ban-from-womens-competitions">https://vexxed.org/o/GenderCritical/5792/transgender-fencer-suing-usa-fencing-usopc-over-ban-from-womens-competitions</a> 2025-10-18T14:59:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvyf7yf49x8tu6mhqehadsqarn9fzcyaq4hh04j6jm46293cnghcqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7pdp8qm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgenz90w3kr3ueuplye3jzpy33ym2ttp5q2a0dje3298t6n5h9s6qpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7qxa8m9'>nevent1q…a8m9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It certainly is... a card you could buy for someone. 2025-10-18T14:37:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsd265x25lm5l3rrymsrnrzzpfh32s8tf7gxjfvuc2ldtwjpa7kmaczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7wzhmqg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxchyjqdd2ehynl4cww06wmg6lyzcvhjwe95uqzw4pvndxhnapddgpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z76ec037'>nevent1q…c037</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Things that seem AI generated, but aren&#39;t. 2025-10-17T15:58:31Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2z3wsr3z7vd2yyhddulpk7aequ37q3yxtnyk0ara2jgdad4lmnlczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7y9auzz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrsrwmup2r6dk8tvreshz6ckrduydaxcqp3lthj49t6822mrcgg6qpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7szh4j9'>nevent1q…h4j9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Apparently I deluded myself into thinking Mermaids was done with. 2025-10-17T06:29:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsw2tqd9vek3mjkyqe24s89wkp8dm3lwje7m8v6u7n9xs6hykdcpsqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7vfnu8y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstuf5gr0tcgn4x53ghtq0gqcdvm3sw7xxfkzt362mp7awm9pnmewcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7ut7tve'>nevent1q…7tve</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>How I wish that were true. 2025-10-14T16:30:55Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszk3t2fulfhtpz6puqwd7upsfauyy3yddfyw28pjr64nnvv3hmf5szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7tdcryf New artist problem unlocked: when your extended family has another professional artist in it and you&#39;re constantly told how you HAVE to meet them. 2025-10-14T16:24:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8g234xjnyv2yxmxlf2j7vqt8ag54fl4vzwqtparycjdq8xdhh59szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp740z37c I don&#39;t understand how someone can have an entire bedroom/bathroom all to themself and their personal items STILL end up in a place that&#39;s inconvenient for everyone in the house. 2025-10-14T15:58:03Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy8dwxqswgr9j8ghmm00fwqx0t04vn8gs7h5rdeztfdd8qjjrzqsczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7wvdxfn The only thing that could make traveling to see ailing relatives more exhausting is having to do it with someone who has the fortitude of a wet tissue. 2025-10-14T01:58:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0rjtvmfatv5cmhddsd3wgyd70xg94tcuefzpwkv5lsq78zxq355szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7wfy49f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswwmh9yy3g3rqyyk45pelxd5mdfhf4xhufcctgguasf7v2lfz2n6qpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q6r46yy'>nevent1q…46yy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Several people recommended Umbrella Academy to me, but I never started it. And then I was kind of glad I never started it after &#34;Elliot&#34; Page happened. 2025-10-04T16:53:08Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgn2k2rhp6pt5q5htuev6ruwjaygggdkwjzd6vcnzfv503x48k3xgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7ahcn26 What is/was a show that people were constantly recommending to you that you just couldn&#39;t seem to get into?<br/><br/>For me it&#39;s Doctor Who and Adventure Time, and I&#39;m still on the fence about whether I&#39;ll continue Steven Universe. 2025-10-03T18:03:08Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswt977cezqv2grasnxu4y5w4wt338u6pwjg2snds8dw5v5fgzh8wqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7gyl2lv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyuv8vg8xsxf9rzxweslt869ge6tfm8q50vwdw3dvjuyh303nafsspz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qdgcdwt'>nevent1q…cdwt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>And then you have the other problem where the brand name becomes too tied to the object. TV shows and knockoffs have to use non-copyrighted terms, which can be confusing. I&#39;ve watched so many baking shows where they clearly weren&#39;t allowed to say the name of a brand of cereal or candy, and the generic term sounded ridiculously bland.<br/><br/>Kleenex vs. Facial tissue<br/>Those spots in the U.S. where all soda is &#34;coke&#34;<br/>And across the pond they tend to call vacuuming &#34;hoovering.&#34; Whereas I&#39;ve only known Hoover to be a brand name. 2025-09-09T19:01:38Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfj2lktwc9tcw37tyaxzm6gau2zdv2p2g5j63fq4szf6yhkdd3zqszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp785nr2t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqststsj2q24rkljnnzzpj7apnvj43hjlv3v34j3dzxwz074u20lkcgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qugtj8m'>nevent1q…tj8m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>&#34;Leggo my Eggo,&#34; two G&#39;s.<br/><br/>I&#39;m not saying people who insist upon adjective lego are wrong, I&#39;m just pointing out that a noun usage does kind of exist.<br/><br/>The name comes from Danish for &#34;play well.&#34; 2025-09-09T18:31:25Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfn2ac8nvge64tunfmddge7c6jvlh3exfgmx6p43ycgwphmg57p5gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7msez8e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszhrvqy0uusepy9v33dvsuqzm5m7uzu3pd8rar69psp88t3mx83vcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q6tn32f'>nevent1q…n32f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>He was definitely on Is It Cake. I never remember who wins these things though. 2025-07-26T03:50:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdrrl442m5nnuc962050v2tu0g2x5sxtxn04ld9sap4hzk8d8shvszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp78ztqqv Watching a wacky baking competition show and this one guy who has been on several others is on. He&#39;s always talking about how weird and kweer he is and how he embraces it and weirdo rep is soooo important blah blah blah. People like him always strike me as secretly super insecure. So anyway he breaks down crying because the judges thought his tasting element was too sweet and scored it low. He actually used the phrase &#34;it felt like being shoved in a locker.&#34; Yeah, you&#39;re TOTALLY comfortable in who you are and not at all covering up deep emotional scars with realistic gore cakes and rainbow beard dye.🙄 2025-07-26T03:23:38Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszaytgks70vzdx8uwsfcka3zdgq0j4cmw2ekmn0jrrf66z7v733yszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7dl3guc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspgrpehm5fjrsl4jxml7urm8wkc3utdnlf5zlea6xcvsutjv72z7qpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q055ac9'>nevent1q…5ac9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>There&#39;s a freaking House MD episode about how topical hormone creams can harm children. I honestly don&#39;t think doctors should prescribe them to anyone whose life includes frequent contact with children. 2025-07-21T14:53:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8r0xh3vgklk66tkjh2j8wflc8fg030cxd30sa3xq7tw3y9g2x0cqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7fm6phc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdkplwzm7ra6qzupd96w9h6p33j02c9na3g6czs3gghjrtxua3uqcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qkx3jxl'>nevent1q…3jxl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s in-between those. I feel like Mad Max has less color and dancing. 2025-07-14T13:15:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsphzluma2a36rua9nevgje57uk8ha6cw2ef79rvtv5qpagr4pyxlqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7fegj7q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8s3qdffraa843d6nq5tqqr9llqyjyd52sc7raa3nxls4rkkehr4spz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qm6msym'>nevent1q…msym</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oompa loompa pants are coming back in, I see. <br/>And there&#39;s some clear influence from one of my all time favorite 1980s music videos, Patty Smyth&#39;s The Warrior. It&#39;s like Cats, if all the performers were anthropomorphic trash instead of cats.<br/><br/><a href="https://youtu.be/47y5bo8wtqM?si=YaIb-9fsM32q80Oe">https://youtu.be/47y5bo8wtqM?si=YaIb-9fsM32q80Oe</a> 2025-07-13T17:03:08Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr4ce2x9t98k44a808zxpttpqtsutnv025mxj420w5zr32w8q9f6czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp75m9tqq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszyezr20822cd4gyy4ac6rxhgrwsgylkygmw0g5j7d2y2mjg88xdqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qe67m09'>nevent1q…7m09</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>As far as I&#39;m aware being &#34;cooked&#34; is bad but &#34;cooking&#34; is good. 😆 2025-07-03T18:32:27Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst6clef9g9sg86t46cwfvt4uur96v6x6sg7pdmp6kvj90lmgmmk2gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7er7ta8 UK spinsters, what does the word &#34;weary&#34; mean across the pond? I&#39;ve seen several instances where it was used where I would assume &#34;wary&#34; should be, and I was wondering if this is a cultural difference. 2025-07-03T17:02:42Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspgs94avjqg6324ug8fydhfudj35gpzccszulaaw7kk728tv8mccszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7t9jh0u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2h987dtsqljthsefzdxcglwg8pl8st2y5g3h96ypccr44add54rgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qymmh64'>nevent1q…mh64</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I imagine this&#39;ll mostly attract TIFs. Which would be unfortunate if they&#39;re medicalized because most of those can&#39;t move well enough to do anything close to Step in Time. 2025-06-26T19:12:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0vn4lazk7yzrxaudhf89j0r8pe39xqlz8k8h3h2adthf3m9g43lszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp73lh76g Call for local Mary Poppins musical wants lots of &#34;male presenting people&#34; apparently. This is what we have come to. I&#39;m pretty sure a community theater company will put anyone in a chimney sweep costume if they can dance well, regardless of their &#34;presentation,&#34; my dude. 2025-06-26T17:40:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9rrm5l8xw767w5k0cq7m2euv7y97g9vesffahr73x90lufn4ae9gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7lrk522 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2h3z0lrf7dmuajszcngea6ej7y6z03z3jsl22zgc56vy2jy22plgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qmkekcy'>nevent1q…ekcy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Is duck duck go a good search engine? I&#39;ve been looking for a new one now that google is functionally useless. 2025-06-12T18:10:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstaq5uer08n4dadzs4l8f2rzhkpxcw0alsf4ghag52jecmehwu8aqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7t48zxk Watching this made me angry, ngl.<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/nevent1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqpauyqvh2nwxmc6g5paxksgf56j6887le3ryuxu6tmqa87pek4r6scmtzw7" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">nevent1q…tzw7</a></span> </div> She doesn't want to treat her endometriosis because it conflicts with her gender lifestyle goals.<br/><br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1926408389795487744/pu/vid/avc1/576x1024/npztJFMbxPtywmy7.mp4?tag=12"></video> </blockquote> 2025-05-30T17:42:36Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszy7lhf52lyqf96sy8clr07dky6kzcrh34d32psx0280psqytq08czyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7jk3p38 I feel there&#39;s a contradiction in the way TRAs want us to worry and not worry about the TQ, but I&#39;m not sure how to articulate it.<br/>The idea is that they&#39;re a small minority and must be uplifted at all costs, but also that they&#39;re a small minority so their presence in single-sex spaces is negligible. So you&#39;re not allowed to ignore them, but also you should ignore them.<br/><br/>I dunno, maybe someone else can make better sense of this thought I had. 2025-04-24T17:26:03Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyn452q8xl03uv9d5z8c39eyukh7kuavmsk3y23jgl6n8eul9e5dszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7y5r4x0 Dang, Oliver hit on many talking points I just had in my &#34;worst argument for men in women&#39;s sports&#34; poll.<br/><a href="https://ovarit.com/o/GenderCritical/686733/summary-snark-of-the-latest-john-oliver-episode">https://ovarit.com/o/GenderCritical/686733/summary-snark-of-the-latest-john-oliver-episode</a> 2025-04-07T18:22:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrux0g864emxat60x4a7x27jasvmnsh2yhyftexlcsk8mmqcrxkmczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7qmqpwn My tap group just went off on a tangent about the poor oppressed transgenders. 🙄 No where is free from it. 2025-04-06T03:04:54Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgpzmwu4ux9pv9v8vtlxp55lq85hucaunv5t39uk34dlv9axxaqmqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7ud745n If you&#39;re a TIP, you&#39;re an expert on all things gender and sex because you have &#34;lived experience&#34; with it. If you&#39;re a woman, you need 5 PHDs to say &#34;my body is female,&#34; and even then you&#39;re not guaranteed to be heard out. 2025-04-05T17:03:46Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdn3ertl9qgcclc77f2lxnk2hug50s5h9zgstl0gn8p93aeg84q5szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7sutvah Having seen all the over the top trans-supportive posts US Fencing has made, this does not surprise me.<br/>No idea how it is in other countries.<br/><br/><a href="https://ovarit.com/o/SaveWomensSports/685411/brave-fencer-who-refused-to-fight-transgender-rival-reveals-sickening-pro-trans">https://ovarit.com/o/SaveWomensSports/685411/brave-fencer-who-refused-to-fight-transgender-rival-reveals-sickening-pro-trans</a> 2025-04-04T18:03:54Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx8ach80erw3x27n0kwmkd74n2zglcga8dx4rrnj4j89vkturna3gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7xjc7v6 Who cares?<br/><br/> <img src="https://media.spinster.xyz/563bc77bd56a849f4d5bfb2a8be8a2fc2525dc1a8e008c4399449a7de9ea2cec.jpg"> 2025-04-03T14:08:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfa2j23nzu7pszzas0w7x75xyqpq6j49d2y9hzs063ywgglxkpjmczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7epmv97 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsggprs8yzwrj47gdray5ddkq0rtvsdgp5ljnsnr6ena65p00f9fxspz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qdrnqw8'>nevent1q…nqw8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Enjoy wasting medical resources and losing all sensation in your crotch besides pain, I guess. Yeesh. 2025-03-31T21:29:48Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswa7vz3e3ma7k0uyutq3wwkf4egtelsrpdsn5guvcueh68qawawjszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7r92gnf I&#39;m sick of 2025 and IT&#39;S ONLY MARCH. 2025-03-29T16:43:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrgfy36gszxlynzfkq6xa79dvsn8dkeahmyejm6qvy8rlwq75xergzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7zng7ya In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq6ykc576j0ssyl229lm09xgm64pw695zpyz03uhy2wv4s39rq64spz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qvvv7ua'>nevent1q…v7ua</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Same. 2025-03-29T13:41:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdgrltuk9xn3ffahnymhvh2mp809v98g2t2r2rmpmt65c6ldv0hrgzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7qez8t3 I&#39;d say USAmericans are more interested in boundaries than restrictions.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/02/26/americans-have-grown-more-supportive-of-restrictions-for-trans-people-in-recent-years/">https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/02/26/americans-have-grown-more-supportive-of-restrictions-for-trans-people-in-recent-years/</a> 2025-03-25T13:06:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgkrc7khvhjansusw9eaz6jl42grjdctsf3az07v4hhg3tjxjhv7gzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7cklfpe I&#39;m sorry, but every time I see he/him on someone&#39;s bio I assume it&#39;s a woman or girl. 2025-02-28T14:01:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs27edrv56l64g2axtxv4h5nlvh28enjkexj79sgwcwhpq8v2860dszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7eu72fm I begging the chronically online to PLEASE stop pathologizing everything you do. You don&#39;t have maladaptive daydreaming, you&#39;re just an obsessive nerd with a working imagination like the rest of us! 2025-02-26T22:34:01Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdx7n3uejkpdc4lrkdrlsav5egg0g9mywj9lfy6sns0l4det6j4qqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp700fp54 Apparently there&#39;s a group of people trying to defend the Emilia-Perez TIM for who knows what reason. 2025-02-26T22:29:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0xvkzacknad9kmvmpq0tx4h7nzgg9j7tksyevk4tlu82xtxl5lnczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7h86mgu TRAs say TERFs want all transpeople dead. I see way more TRAs celebrating the deaths of people who were only TERF-adjacent than TERFs celebrating the deaths of actual transpeople. 2025-02-26T22:23:37Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxq3yu8gl8r7cm6je8qt6zxpvkre2wja3zspg4a095hqc7schrl8szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7jrrl8k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz6l8n6udgm33acr6wlymk7x9g8zmndeksj5fvecx622y39256jgqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q2a2md6'>nevent1q…2md6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>No juice? 2025-02-23T15:49:27Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg6f4fxc5us0g42r5fmy50nsgme3uvyx4m35uszrcvm9q845s7kzqzyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7uzp4hd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9ggjh53rhw67w6cyq3pdm9wp6zzsmc3c3s0tk3eldjdulppfxd8qpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q6n0vxd'>nevent1q…0vxd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My aunt is in a similar situation to yours. The creator didn’t cover this vector of the loneliness issue because he&#39;s specifically looking at the average gen-Z person, like himself.<br/><br/>I have antisocial behaviors, but rudeness and being inconsiderate infuriate me, which is pro-social. <br/>The creator was very forgiving towards social foibles, even admitting his own. That&#39;s more of what the video was about: recognizing what gen-Z may be doing that prevents them from having the relationships they want. <br/>Identifying anti and pro-social behaviors can help people in many different situations, though. And both types of behavior can help or hinder us. The point is to not give up on having good relationships. 2025-02-22T17:30:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst0dxy60vf3sssn30wvm656hl83rdzzkq0wxzyksdaggujxgpgx8szyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp7h8qyrn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2s5qxe7k92y5pceyh2ymmgvwua8jdjvnyhy3ez4z9my23hy9s5zspz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qpnajvw'>nevent1q…ajvw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><a href="https://youtu.be/qAmYLsEqC34?si=yYyp_9C_NX6a0eFA">https://youtu.be/qAmYLsEqC34?si=yYyp_9C_NX6a0eFA</a> 2025-02-22T16:18:58Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2myg4un4j27vzp2y24n4mfvmffkm7jkyd8q82le3euf0aj78v8gczyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp73hfmlf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrd7n2ljxwjjxp5lsca36xm2xddsfs5mfg8mzm77edaxtkh7fmuhspz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qppek7d'>nevent1q…ek7d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m highly exaggerating, of course. That one could&#39;ve been divided into the &#34;estrogen makes men weaker&#34; and &#34;women just need to train harder&#34; arguments. I also know of a couple TIMs who refuse to work out their upper bodies because they think they&#39;ll instantly bulk up too much. 🙄 2025-02-22T16:16:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8zl2n9sy23ppztlen4xrhlf0rhardtf230fskvpltvuwq0tlctnszyqq3l6nx5m2gmvfjnc7gx7e43frwyww94nn99996uecexu4wgvdp79n2234 I watched a video about why gen-Z is having trouble making friends and forming communities, and I was pleasantly surprised that the creator was willing to call out antisocial behaviors in addition to obvious external factors like social media and the pandemic. Now, he didn’t call them &#34;antisocial behaviors,&#34; but that&#39;s basically what he was getting at. And we&#39;re talking &#34;antisocial&#34; in the sense that they prevent social connection, and not in the &#34;humanity is a cancer&#34; way.<br/><br/>This was about things like repeatedly canceling plans, especially at the very last minute. Never bothering to attend group functions. Never doing anyone any favors that inconvenience you. Being unwilling to interact with people who don&#39;t perfectly align with your expectations.<br/><br/>Good friendships require some effort. Good communities require some collectivism. 2025-02-22T16:06:56Z