2026-04-19T11:26:36Z https://yabu.me rowan {forest witch} https://yabu.me/npub1mkk0he4yre69xz4j5dprny2w5kh9vfx0jvsajawuarm5k8au3yfqdtm7gj https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/accounts/avatars/111/614/113/371/637/646/original/f23caf4e00f33546.jpeg https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/accounts/avatars/111/614/113/371/637/646/original/f23caf4e00f33546.jpeg https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdcnn8vtjnezlq2an3dalhr9f25ru6jpea9n5uh34drzeu0swjfzgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yqca432 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg66gxptgc68ysmcjsxezrcg50ne0lrnuwn5f38rycw24aer94xdgkqvw62'>nevent1q…vw62</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that&#39;s, em ... that&#39;s something. Hugs and hot tea offered. 2025-05-14T18:38:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsd84vjl5xr2z0d82r9drf5tu7mg3xucptzm6ch4fjwyw6ypsp7ggqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yy0dyzg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0hfena6jvenkk70sndxlkvq0kxvkcasatgmdphxl6uvds65mu65c8elfew'>nevent1q…lfew</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🤭 2025-04-28T15:46:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfhz0crmrvp692t0p50z02m073se9mt3y0h00wu6326qe2tuuzaqczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ycysjfc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrvx80e83ffv75uyqmkuelxfvw5m9s2n4l592ct4kmpsvhtv7a9zcmxe7tq'>nevent1q…e7tq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>this, really, completely. 2025-03-28T20:24:42Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspkapf97wy85xyaf4xujsc06apahsmzu49z6pawzxt9a5qualha4czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ysjkrln In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyyqzt7l8nzp78yeajp9zjnvldhd3auqmuql2nn5yctham838wnhswhnc3p'>nevent1q…nc3p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>call me next time, and we&#39;ll go hiking. If that&#39;s your thing. That&#39;s what I did this afternoon to cope. 2025-02-16T05:09:44Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2tv66y3gcmjvnm886e5eju8f5s04k8fepej6m3tz2jw6r3un48wczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yxa63wf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswrmmsm7rh28rcvg9xyellcf6qugnq6sr4t05a35rcnpc94yfeckc026vra'>nevent1q…6vra</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>EEEEEEEEE! I literally got off the phone and whooped with joy. And scared the cats. 2025-01-17T04:14:41Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv7qk0vp35jm9jxdgu49hxthpksn5lcm7244fkt730c5gtpper6xgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ythycxq Today as I finished lunch I got a call. Gender Confirmation Center wanted to discuss surgery dates. Friends, I have surgery scheduled for April 9. We still have to wrangle insurance, but this is otherwise perfect timing, letting me get through an aerial rope performance in February and a month of slinging my pro camera and lens around for the circus troupe&#39;s yearly show in March. I should be recovered enough for more light photo work in May and some backpacking in July. I&#39;ll be back in the air sometime in the fall, with my circus physical therapist&#39;s approval.<br/><br/>I cannot express how much of a weight has lifted off my shoulders this afternoon. Even when I haven&#39;t been consciously thinking and worrying about this, it&#39;s been lurking in the background - a need that wasn&#39;t being met, that I had to prod and shepherd along to make sure everything kept up. That part of me can now think about other things and happily anticipate this. 2025-01-17T04:10:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszccnktsftkherw8rkj984cs3302zsa9uyt22m89sm00r7xaxhx8czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ymqnxw5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqycznm7zl7qpm49e5gwlq4fyg29skla67qxmzzml7gkcswx0zahslxhfp6'>nevent1q…hfp6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>likewise! (And, honestly, by &#34;meet&#34; I mainly mean here online, because tragically the number of people I&#39;ve met in person is not huge. Growing, but, sheesh.) 2024-12-19T19:04:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvfv8j5s9q2kpzuufsxas4xdn0t4ekjeu70pdss70cpx7pyh5facczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y2mgmxc Holy tits, it&#39;s been exactly a year since I quietly slid over here to chaosfem.tw. Sorry, <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1y5d70ttn8g9j35q7qj0nrscg4lrllmadautkprmg0etp8hj3k2ds42ng26" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Caroline Kinlund</span> (<span class="italic">npub1y5d…ng26</span>)</a></span>, I&#39;ve polluted the waters, I&#39;m sure - it was your mild ribbing that got me to move.<br/><br/>What a year it&#39;s been. I&#39;d elaborate, but I don&#39;t have the space, because gosh, all of you all, what glorious people. I&#39;m glad I&#39;m here, and I&#39;m unbelievably glad to have met all of you. 2024-12-19T19:01:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxxffq9h7hnmq7es4f7ryf5c3r84e7dhcf9g9sermm8z362h09x6czyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yl7snsl If you want to know how meaningful trans medical care is, let me tell you this: have you ever seen a trans surgeon almost cry when one of her patients expresses their deep, heartfelt thanks for a previous surgery? As they are in the pre-op room for the next surgery? This isn’t just light “oh I have a fancy I’d like this.” Trans care saves lives, trans care builds lives. 2024-12-17T21:34:09Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9dppck7j0qsycfkm3lp7692v3rwnxef3xpfk5zusrx6tvx966p4szyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ys7xuwe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyjlcg3ufeckfewnk0qk5ctcd3sfvzdgzd0wxj3mam0hvgcjlejcgyvfhdl'>nevent1q…fhdl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>{{hugs}} Is beautiful. 2024-11-17T18:27:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr8avrunrr8tyahc2d3js6xq0gqvh3m8vz2866xje3llje98tlgjczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ylgaxpz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst8k9epjqdlfxwqz35rmwcgfl3ytsfz8h29rdx4sretu6dfea7p9gvd6ltd'>nevent1q…6ltd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ugggghhh. I love a lot of the drag I’ve encountered, but I also admit it’s largely been in the Bay Area queertrans community, and here it’s really welcoming, and the layers upon layers of non-cis queerness are great. But that ain’t everywhere. 2024-10-21T02:28:58Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswzajepj83hzan96pzh48tzc2vlhznt2fd8a8nautk7wemjcpypfgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y3gxzn2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg5ppj5eg2zcjzc03g7v3xr40ak872yqu3g4zrrw4l6xq4x35d4zgf5j4mw'>nevent1q…j4mw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ok, now I&#39;m curious about when new style can tabs got widespread. I collected the old style for a while - I found them all over in the dirt and bent them into a shape that could sort of clip to the brim of my hat. That stopped being a thing I could easily do somewhere in the early to mid 90s, although I can still every once in a while find a juice can style old tab (the soda/beer can style is long gone, somehow). 2024-09-16T04:08:34Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqste7utfcwwagtym673vt6e0fukl090f7e0xed8ptw7ckl2a5f0axgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ylknsml In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxfh5ehlct6fvz5dqfq345mzen2gll0ss0gqcsav698w2xn02le9cm03wg2'>nevent1q…3wg2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>me: *glances at Tilly, nods* Shall we? End her, that is? 2024-09-14T22:28:38Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrn8u25wqdxxu3lwuynzj5073p3ngykpdwd69l644e3nzpfkxktkszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yl4ymt5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy6h3nrtxj7qcaydxefw3yuvk3dtx8zkhsmtuelkt8hvwzt5a7jaqgvxmjj'>nevent1q…xmjj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the “kinda” and the “sometimes” are doing a lot of heavy lifting here. 2024-09-11T13:40:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszk6mxtuhr9yg0sr7x7awvueqde7tlcpadz48smh8wgqthp34lwjqzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ykwpmw0 So here are three of the things I made yesterday flameworking. Seashells are one of my favorite things to make, they have just enough variation to let me be imperfectly creative, and they show off the colors nicely. These are each about three inches long, and they&#39;re using the new glass colors I got earlier in the summer.<br/><br/>I also made a bunch of little acorns and some leaf ornaments.<br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/060/090/052/503/989/original/eec68f81ba1d32e5.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/060/090/158/041/169/original/ba0305d46bbf1d15.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/060/090/240/137/073/original/e334abd652633ee9.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-09-01T03:15:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs07flzlqspgwkwz356ym3c4w64wxns5ztg3n4cdd2lz0mhjyg9aagzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y2k6ycx Haaays guess what I’m back on my bullshit in the glass studio! I’m finally making time again. The last time I was making anything, I made a special pendant for a special someone in March. Now I’ve got a craft fair in December to prepare for, and I’m gonna see what these new glass colors I got do for seashells…<br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/113/052/186/939/906/525/original/a33c83e1d2d53669.jpg"> <br/> 2024-08-30T17:41:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswdm9wjcsd4mw75eszz9e9krngtv3pcyanx2n25jnxfazkcawcxeszyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ydt372g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswl3rjlm37yap6e23uym6sdxfa4760mt55w3c9tuwpds2pzyuxsrstvyd6q'>nevent1q…yd6q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I remember that. 🤭 Just about made my day. I think I said something similar right back. 🤩 2024-08-26T16:51:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyu9apy80exx0jdgq90s8frrasrwt8aew2llcg26tpcp6pzgsrv8szyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y94r5mt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrmuavwz4eggg6urr6ewxngva99ardn968ynm9mkpfrzu629utffge40250'>nevent1q…0250</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>you’ll be even happier when you see it in person and realize it’s a very light red… 2024-08-26T16:42:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsthhrlwpzhm76g0c9w4gj7sf3k4aea22hadnpm9guzplnca8qr20qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3y85v8q3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdks64tckfnnkkw40ac650hmtu735crxeg4hywawgg6smyw0surqspvvu79'>nevent1q…vu79</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>sorry, did you say hair? I got lost there for a moment… long, short, curly, wavy, straight, green, dark, silver, I’m here for it… 2024-08-26T16:18:40Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy5hwwpxe8jdxdu5xhzwwnd3fpm9f3sc7jc9dthfe62mqzjzuav5qzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yq2eg0f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvkmmr67jknje0vhqpf28kwy09e50eve0glp0uzg97lv7kc8ax5mg7p6yld'>nevent1q…6yld</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>goth Jessica can can step out of that mirror and do a ritual if she so wants. 2024-08-24T01:00:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspx0k3raxxvvnffgh8tvd3j5v27ycguywlqnndp0dljm2prs2fnlgzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3ycq4rcm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0nmtwzestff99u923uc96t8cjsc9zp4942luw6nk2tj5r63cxnkqqcyd55'>nevent1q…yd55</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>joyously radiant! 2024-08-17T05:13:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0mqyc9ytmq9hek4u832wmfwprsm7v0gq2y5w7xum9t52versl72gzyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yn4fzz8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqpvmmn0ee8cy2hauqyxzaz3ml6zp5y9y9qpp6va76s5zeh9tp3kgpm27zz'>nevent1q…27zz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>going to the beach and sauna on a whim with the kid to meet our circus friends for the afternoon. 2024-08-16T16:06:08Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqj9qz6t5jp67ps5yjmvd33ehz5c8e544d2px9dll2d4aw28jpdtczyrw6e7lx5s08g5c2k235ywv3f6j6u43ye7fjrkt4mn50wjclhjy3yg3sxf7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswkxqegnf8u5l5yqf9wzg4zq03lxxlwu6rft3ezugwha6saq6mvvgtytadf'>nevent1q…tadf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I absolutely love dandelions and have refused to mow them down. 2024-08-16T15:57:35Z