2026-03-26T16:36:31Z https://yabu.me Wendy "Casio" 🏳️‍⚧️ https://yabu.me/npub1h3zjy6jkcf90hllgdrwsf8d0am6ul8hscu87kxzhq76dvp2d348szgsp3w https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/accounts/avatars/112/651/754/214/008/280/original/6a0f9baddfa14f9f.png https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/accounts/avatars/112/651/754/214/008/280/original/6a0f9baddfa14f9f.png https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszv0jqtl3l8h7yvzzh6vpa7smezau78y4tt6m04n3xnu86z4axncqzyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57vh764e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2t0l3qdqrkvlx64edq6w5cgw60x5jnyh3sdqkxzf9msx8ns57c5gsx9642'>nevent1q…9642</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Even if you have access to therapy, it&#39;s not like it&#39;s just going to work on everything. It could, I like to hope, with enough time; untangling a lifetime of stuff can take a significant chunk of a lifetime. 2025-03-23T17:37:58Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyxrdmxafak4n3nzc7ast2pdmf6q0vu099la2c20pc7v3jtes8a6gzyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57rw5pdx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsruvtmj3yucvmx0fwh04k6gstwnllzdd6ae4xyjns4hewg2ak6lmqkqd69w'>nevent1q…d69w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Awesome. 2025-01-31T19:13:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfvfv99j6f6809qnr9eejtzpevpwse2azdvchufenznd262q9h9mczyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57jazn3q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8k6uczr9rr4zygq9zernk5yvup2vk4f4l5kmaf0n8sna9xn0h82cynsqfp'>nevent1q…sqfp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My general rule, if I&#39;m asking myself this question, it&#39;s time to leave. 2025-01-31T16:20:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8k6uczr9rr4zygq9zernk5yvup2vk4f4l5kmaf0n8sna9xn0h82czyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57x8a8j9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8zsa9ak07uty6hzrs66vgm4ekwuvd6k7aqmp759ap8ywrgyjpxvcz6va5v'>nevent1q…va5v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Where are you at? 2025-01-31T16:18:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfsjdhwyxppvx32wk8twgvaf3kaf4gmu8tz34ekhw7wklwgf6qreqzyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx570d5fjm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstr0deecyp88zjzea70ewq8stdn5tvr9w4stv6d9xv7mh0dlkqg8snuh2r5'>nevent1q…h2r5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hi Lucy, totally get how this could be hard to focus on right now, but thought I&#39;d ping you anyway. If the world is just too much right now, I get it. If not I would love to find out more. 2025-01-29T21:08:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfsdrkdkfka5vesl8v7ux9u43mu857yledm9ypxa8kc9rw79l5v8czyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57dqgyys In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstr0deecyp88zjzea70ewq8stdn5tvr9w4stv6d9xv7mh0dlkqg8snuh2r5'>nevent1q…h2r5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! 2025-01-27T21:57:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsz6svjydla67ezvxcmfgefukeytec6gpls30fgvlaxk5h5zvut5cczyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57n6qp6s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswjvuk56xmlttdrjdspwy4phfw927qv77ltywk5y09uf6ddt96dvcaqyseh'>nevent1q…yseh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I just don&#39;t know what happened. I have never been told. I want to be educated. Sources, someplace I can read what happened, would be very welcome. 2025-01-27T21:56:15Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs92wlpw6m9nslafd33zvpt7paw6k3d79yy0q0rq4rrcyxp4lfqhegzyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57f8l993 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9dfhwlgnxphl7zhekjnvn7rgnq884syr9qansz8y5ccgcqwze5vqdwpst4'>nevent1q…pst4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>&#34;I could tell you about how even after the concentration camps were emptied after the war, that queer people were not liberated by the Allies, they were relocated to new prisons.&#34;<br/><br/>I have heard this mentioned before, but I have never been told, and I still don&#39;t know what happened.<br/><br/>I can search and find hundreds of articles on persecution of us by the Nazis, and I can find out that anti-queer laws were left in place, but I have no idea what happened to us when the camps were liberated. 2025-01-27T21:34:11Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxknqrl4mwtmzs4ryr3xctxqpywaueu4gjneq2pte0dp0xpx6suaszyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57tn6z6v If you don&#39;t have Signal installed on your phone, please fix that.<br/><br/>You may not need the security for yourself, but someone you talk to will.<br/><br/>Everyone needs to have it. ⚧️<br/><br/><a href="https://signal.org/">https://signal.org/</a> 2025-01-21T12:23:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2g762rzzxnq0l5rqglakxdjjkm3gjmawglmeq57ju7qmnz4u900czyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx572q5uju In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszg525tprjjcvq9v62x57rcx8ty0ewhkvrutxl6thtd5jg725uhxce60c6v'>nevent1q…0c6v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh I don&#39;t feel horribly old for a change. Just going to bask in this moment, remembering Maxis Games. 2024-08-24T21:06:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqa3c9nu7cf4xst4k9z34heuqf6s3pjaqdkz9a8eqce9g7tqeg6cszyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57rwq50a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd0t20d22pcxpnyes7taj23rd6hd4qjr320cva5htfutjw3gcr7esxm5mj6'>nevent1q…5mj6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I see something in the shape of a girl.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t think you&#39;re hiding very well. 2024-08-22T23:46:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfn66uma6exgknz9428lk2leuyj4cplle7te5cscda6gndvsjjjsszyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx5747tumn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrm2k5098z8kzq3m3nequ29anehcgzddw4vx2spzf4wj0w4upr5vguw8lng'>nevent1q…8lng</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Please stop reminding me I&#39;m old. <br/><br/>Maybe I should campaign for the use of CW&#39;s for this sort of thing... 2024-08-22T00:27:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyzpuhlywtvc4agumx6zplpmcqh2uvy8rjfwp6ull3ms9gyr7myfszyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57e35gpd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw692juq9vj6mu3pwvjk3egqwwq26n28vg0w64zme75t6v6cfc0jg9y6amt'>nevent1q…6amt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>aw this is beautiful. 2024-08-17T23:55:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgjdc602l6cwjaj3p89snruclfqzdntffcm25yrwkmk3kr6trtypczyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57kd7xgm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp74y8q5sw98zxaq23sl7tgnczf6duqdg3c56zdrg54fckelfeyugsce6n2'>nevent1q…e6n2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have a hunch that today will always be remembered as the day I met Rikki.<br/><br/>I suspect I have begun a friendship that will turn out to be very meaningful, to both of us. 2024-08-17T21:34:34Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp74y8q5sw98zxaq23sl7tgnczf6duqdg3c56zdrg54fckelfeyugzyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57tupdsv So my spouse has been working the County Fair all week (haven&#39;t really spent any time with her since Monday), which to me is crazy: crowds of people, most of whom I won&#39;t like, is my idea of a very bad time. But she is predisposed to liking people, so.<br/><br/>Anyway she texts me to say she met an older (75) trans woman who lives in the neighboring town, and gave me her number.<br/><br/>This is the sort of thing that happens to her. Like, the odds of that are kinda unreal, but here we are.<br/><br/>It sounds like the woman&#39;s wife passed away not too long ago.<br/><br/>I&#39;m meeting her at a coffee shop, headed out the door now. 2024-08-17T18:23:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswn42cr34kl7au82ua2s9c9u0pn0n67g2rkdn83rzvzzupf7p26tczyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57v0sked In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfplgjjwcdf5x46nqtg0mckug8ss00qzwvcm8mf00tvu639zjp5ugvudzxm'>nevent1q…dzxm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My heart dies a little every time there&#39;s lettuce in my steak salad. 2024-08-16T21:40:56Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqqy63zumc5wef8sjksvcgngcce3zsz97y2f6khelfx39cf24hafszyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx57am2rdz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspsnpvaum6zuv4x26ysxau5f7lk30hmylh63x8vzev3r7cz3sv7psje2e5j'>nevent1q…2e5j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>so true, isn&#39;t it? 2024-07-30T06:04:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvgn96wrzkxyvudd55y3c8h58tvmkqk9mup8q7z7tk79lwdymsfkqzyz7y2gn22mpy47llap5d6pya4lh0tnu77rrsl6cc2urmf4s9fkx5730e3dt New socks, just in case people were unsure about what I am.<br/> <img src="https://chaosfemtw.files.fedi.monster/media_attachments/files/112/873/891/935/273/125/original/2d690bdd5cef9b59.jpg"> <br/> 2024-07-30T05:58:20Z