2024-11-25T19:29:22Z https://yabu.me Nege 🌨 https://yabu.me/npub1e6dqaq0ex8l3pajrl66fzyeq7q293j6084g67dmz2raxe3k76v4qjfw3p9 https://files.strangeobject.space/accounts/avatars/109/837/483/453/196/944/original/f0988ad1e71711b1.png https://files.strangeobject.space/accounts/avatars/109/837/483/453/196/944/original/f0988ad1e71711b1.png https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyuh9hg3yack5pzdw8ltuatlfx2jd0jd8m772lycwjch993mtxtwczyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj58pekev I&#39;m going to start explaining being nonbinary the way people justify owning a truck.<br/><br/>&#34;I need the extra genders for work sometimes.&#34;<br/>&#34;Oh, you know, it&#39;s a lifestyle thing, with all the outdoor gender exploring I do.&#34; 2024-10-15T21:15:21Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxet2eqz3thayvvzyg0sdkhvqthn0l09wrekxyv8mx0wp7cmmxukszyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5p22kkl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf84w5m354v9kq556nrx0zxw05qjmf50pa6t0zs88y6yn9726q3kqvyvjyp'>nevent1q…vjyp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>it doesn&#39;t need to be a full u-turn, just a pivot to a different goal 2024-09-27T12:02:41Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8f4reh89vruz3fz5yvz32359ftpa0e8w8r9cqfgcqap7d069s3vszyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5nncc0j In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswpdm8emgvsk77uxe57fphgayq5y5kyldkrxhelswjugghatr9jzc4z0wdl'>nevent1q…0wdl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was just looking at their site to consider such options, coincidentally.<br/><br/>Do you use it? How do you find it? Do you have multiple accounts in it? 2024-09-26T14:38:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxtpn7rna5c3atl095arjv34fxhjxnr9rp3k7c59k3xchvucceg8qzyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj55q6wzl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrpuxfjhth693r80thnr0pp4mqq5yu260vc27xpwaadhm6vwp98fcx9ufuu'>nevent1q…ufuu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>mine doesn&#39;t look like either of theirs 😂 My mom was always so careful when writing and I scribble like the Tasmanian devil cartoon. 2024-09-18T11:53:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsve3chym9v7srt0stasj54yp4d4zd6hjllmtjew8neyg44eey3lcszyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5zpf8wc Remember handwriting analysis as a personality test? If there was any validity to that it would&#39;ve screamed &#34;nonbinary AuDHD&#34; at me much earlier. 2024-09-17T22:34:02Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg86n79mszrhc64xem8psx8ccgvlmaqvgxvvs89gvcchzdvz27e9qzyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj56w3de5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstenjj9h3ws89pkmfxnq9zpa35jsmheh548jfu02jjwtgpcp5sw3sam20z0'>nevent1q…20z0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>thank you for justifying what I was going to do anyway. 2024-09-08T23:07:03Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs87j7gy57zl8turqf28tqx4fqp0c32jngk2l93celm0h5jxkz9wmqzyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5nknazg Should I go get ice cream? First answer wins. 2024-09-08T23:00:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx97kd0yvha8rhnc08krd2gq20waxlj4ms5jxypexpu4kpslr33tczyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj52k0rqg Virgin shaming is not cool. Someone being a douchebag all strung up and mad at people? Then the issue is that they&#39;re a douchebag, which is not related to the status of their sexual experience.<br/><br/>Life can be lived with joy and enriching experiences without sex. People can have sex-positive attitudes and know a lot about it without having had sex themselves. Whether they&#39;ve had sex, or how much they&#39;ve had, doesn&#39;t affect their worth or their wisdom.<br/><br/>Also people don&#39;t need to try it to know whether or not they want it. They can if they&#39;re curious or compelled to give it a shot, but they don&#39;t need to do so to know they&#39;re asexual.<br/><br/>(Virginity is a bullshit concept anyway, historically used to treat girls and women as commodities to be traded. Pursuing sexual experiences is a deeply personal choice, and it&#39;s perfectly fine to opt out entirely.) 2024-09-06T14:28:36Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswy4jnjkxt4gssh3efh5p422t383hmd34v6axj4r6qtswl7wq8wlszyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5q4257d In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs079fnq5ccemyszf2uwmu8qq5e6muejj3yqxnzake36zajvdkw3kswzluu0'>nevent1q…luu0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>humpty fucking dumpty 2024-09-06T02:13:37Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxxvv5yszap9rk4up2kn3ylrvupf22y6tqn08egdd60kfccyhjh2qzyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5fcqcw5 Guess I can&#39;t post things right now... 2024-09-02T20:55:57Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9cr3mapn7yem4k65xjvh58lu4lw60n0jl64swjl3agarkxncvwzqzyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5az0a7x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2jx3rvyaax2ljezgr49svr95qzwkwxasx6842s99yjlpy939ex0q5tknh5'>nevent1q…knh5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>that is fucking outrageous, I am so sorry and angry on your behalf and in general about this long covid bullshit 2024-08-30T13:17:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv6a7hlje6c5ae96wwnqersv2mzgazz3a6q8z2r9dgmf4nz8s9ayszyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5faddep In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyrhk08u27ctl2s29rxccq02lkx25fmsd2n3gkktdapjn9jx3398gkkkue7'>nevent1q…kue7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I had no film for my camera to take pictures (as I had used up three whole rolls at her party that Saturday) so my memories are the only record I have. There were three other friends who were picked up, as her mom&#39;s sedan only had five seats, who lived various distances away. But I was first. I got the front seat. We were all giddy and excited. It was the best way to end the summer, like a party on wheels.<br/><br/>This car didn&#39;t have a tape deck or cd player. All we had was the radio. The friend driving was always quick to change the station if she didn&#39;t like the song. I can vividly remember her shouting and laughing while aggressively pressing the button for a different pre-programmed station.<br/><br/>There was one song that kept coming up on different stations. In the five or so hours we were getting lost throughout the city, this song came on about eight times: Scar Tissue, by the Red Hot Chili Peppers, the first single from their album Californication. 2024-08-30T12:44:21Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyrhk08u27ctl2s29rxccq02lkx25fmsd2n3gkktdapjn9jx3398gzyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj56kpwxl Personal story time!<br/><br/>Twenty-five years ago today was a very memorable day. It was a Monday. It was the day before school started again. It was also two days after my friend&#39;s 16th birthday. Her actual birthday was a Saturday, so Monday, August 30, 1999 was the earliest day she could schedule her driver&#39;s test. Her mom drove her to the DMV and left the car there, having confidence she would pass and be able to drive herself home (as this was before graduated licensing).<br/><br/>She did pass. This was before cell phones were common, and she didn&#39;t feel like going home first (why do that if she now had license to go wherever she wanted?) so she just showed up at my door. My mom answered the door and called for me. I was in the basement watching Sunset Beach, a terrible soap opera set to be cancelled in the fall. Since this was the last day of summer it would be the last episode I&#39;d ever watch.<br/><br/>Which was fine; as I said, it was terrible. 2024-08-30T12:34:36Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrzl6w9fwt3lg7qy4mmxtze9u0kp7u8t8kzp5jnw5435gas0572gczyr8f5r5plycl7y8kg0ltfygnyrcpgkxtfu74rtehvfg05mxxmmfj5dj2h36 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvtm98vpzrrqx9z4c4w4ev70zzlz8w84zepxlhhyh8tq8xlcg5uzgkmsal9'>nevent1q…sal9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Now, do I *actually* want this acknowledgement? No, not really, but I like to develop weird rants to go on to make actually good points about people&#39;s biases and understanding of humanity based on very specifically designed curricula of history, from when they&#39;re very young. And it&#39;s not that simple to just &#34;learn more&#34;; you gotta unlearn a whole way of seeing. 2024-08-07T08:54:30Z