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  <title>Nostr notes by ThreeOfUs</title>
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      <title type="html">Found out this morning that I’m almost certainly going to be ...</title>
    
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      Found out this morning that I’m almost certainly going to be made #redundant 😬
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    <updated>2025-10-01T12:34:42Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">thanks Lee I’m doing ok. Plenty of ups and downs but I’m ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsdpq3av3cqxyz67g6fsdpf55pf3rys60n7lscytyn5x9cmmy4ulqsmfsklh&#39;&gt;nevent1q…sklh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;thanks Lee I’m doing ok.  Plenty of ups and downs but I’m still going strong!   Hope you’re well too.
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    <updated>2025-09-25T20:18:11Z</updated>
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      At what point is it ok to turn the heating on?
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    <updated>2025-09-16T10:00:39Z</updated>
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      If you scrupulously wash your hands and they still smell of poop, are they clean or dirty?
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    <updated>2025-07-23T12:48:11Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">I’ve made a start by not going to church. I’m peopled out and ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsp87md48y9cagg5035fltkps7f8jd27z4dkfhsaurwqnmf0y4s7hgk3r20h&#39;&gt;nevent1q…r20h&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I’ve made a start by not going to church.  I’m peopled out and need an introvert day.
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    <updated>2025-06-01T09:30:50Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">thanks Lee ☺️</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqswtl3m2ajgvqx0wkszk5cmjd7t9zed79qftv9u8fg57nv3cksvahstmegvx&#39;&gt;nevent1q…egvx&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;thanks Lee ☺️
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    <updated>2025-05-14T08:42:35Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Her behaviour makes me feel rejected, uninteresting, unimportant. ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsg9czyxltg5hzqc559ma3el6dzq3qdfpxedcwlm4ej7uvmc5updcgeuferr&#39;&gt;nevent1q…ferr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Her behaviour makes me feel rejected, uninteresting, unimportant.  It says to me:  My games on my phone are more important to me than having a connection with you.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If we didn’t have a baby together I would have left months ago.  I’m sure there’s a moral to that story.
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    <updated>2025-05-13T07:32:43Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Wanted to spend some quality time with C last night. I put a film ...</title>
    
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      Wanted to spend some quality time with C last night.  I put a film on but she just sat there scrolling on her phone at the opposite end of the sofa as though I didn’t exist.  I turned the film off after 10 mins and went upstairs to leave her to it.  So much for quality time.  She does this nearly every time.  Our relationship is pretty broken.&lt;br/&gt;#relationships
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    <updated>2025-05-13T07:27:58Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">nice work. Cake looks great too 🤩</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqszpxz8krtzgy04gwc7hlcdaxnywgtwch06f6ujl4wwgrpe0a4fe2qfw6epz&#39;&gt;nevent1q…6epz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;nice work. Cake looks great too 🤩
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    <updated>2025-04-28T13:31:42Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">that’s a hardcore bit of fasting! I did 48 hours once and swam ...</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsyqdg0z5tmmc25a6pz6lnykwfyxmk0pqyr6xneaf28avu7zdmsh9gqea75y&#39;&gt;nevent1q…a75y&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;that’s a hardcore bit of fasting!  I did 48 hours once and swam at the end of it… went all dizzy 😬
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    <updated>2025-04-11T13:10:54Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">that’s cool! I look forward to giving it a go ☺️</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsrv5w4ck9y23xefx05cnq7j3pnakatzap0r5tc82j9cjdx75ttrmqwrgfg5&#39;&gt;nevent1q…gfg5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;that’s cool!  I look forward to giving it a go ☺️
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    <updated>2025-02-24T17:23:36Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">how will you release the finished product and on what platforms?</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsyun8weswt6jpjzskaadf2tg8lylv3sjlq8efqtqkkp9umhzr5mrcczwyzj&#39;&gt;nevent1q…wyzj&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;how will you release the finished product and on what platforms?
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    <updated>2025-02-24T14:35:30Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">Elon’s too busy as #potus</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsp5smufrnpase3rtz3vlems05jydamtgysce9fq66xuhah5ekk5ngz9nd8r&#39;&gt;nevent1q…nd8r&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Elon’s too busy as #potus
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    <updated>2025-02-18T20:59:17Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">☺️. Thanks.</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsrdvd8asl8wd8xccpj7wwl5qv6mcnk0xc625vvl54xtdlsmrtpaxqpm2neu&#39;&gt;nevent1q…2neu&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;☺️.  Thanks.
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    <updated>2024-09-06T14:41:52Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">thanks Lee.</title>
    
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      In reply to &lt;a href=&#39;/nevent1qqsv5phudqnsspknsgmres7xfzz3xcx557kv55zewznsgk89c23tfvglzr567&#39;&gt;nevent1q…r567&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;_________________________&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;thanks Lee.
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    <updated>2024-09-06T08:12:06Z</updated>
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      <title type="html">1/ C has been lying in bed more than half the time in recent ...</title>
    
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      1/ C has been lying in bed more than half the time in recent weeks.  She’s 20 weeks pregnant and very depressed and anxious.  I try being gentle with her and then being more forthright to try to get her to engage with life rather than just lying in bed doomscrolling but nothing works.  I ask her to seek help and she refuses.  I’m working full time from home and her two boys are downstairs unaccompanied watching kids YouTube for hours on end.  What a mess.  #depression #anxiety
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    <updated>2024-08-29T12:29:12Z</updated>
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      Tell me about the one you shouldn’t have let get away
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    <updated>2024-08-06T16:03:43Z</updated>
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