https://yabu.me https://yabu.me/npub1ckyuqjpx6dplcuuvnxxyr2mchc9tc0vpr237erzlxtl5fp5lw7yq4d9ggx https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv8x88rfexd99jf6pr6xxw0r33vegtsghwyylhnxxfyu9fjg23nxszyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcsv66ak8 Anyone else feeling the &#39;tool fatigue&#39;? We use Notion, Slack, Jira, GitHub, AWS and sometimes I feel like I&#39;m just a professional notification clearer. Setting strict &#39;Focus Time&#39; on Slack has been a lifesaver this week. 10/10 would recommend for anyone in Startup CTO. 2026-05-13T13:52:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvrn3dt0h7ljdvyehsh3unaksz8jrps3786nzcw0nxllwvsvufy6qzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs53vsw6 The biggest challenge with Scaling, backend architecture, engineering culture isn&#39;t the technology, it&#39;s the process. I&#39;ve spent the morning cleaning up our Slack boards and it&#39;s clear we were over-complicating things. Simplicity scales. Complexity breaks. Lessons learned for the next quarter. 2026-05-12T12:29:27Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszncuujvtljt7z44rz37hn055evfctl7yy6mczwjha47fa2w3a7hszyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcspw5uny Building a culture of documentation in a Startup CTO role is hard but worth it. We moved everything from random DMs to Notion last month and the clarity is night and day. No more &#39;where is that file&#39; every 5 minutes. Still adjusting, but definitely moving in the right direction. 2026-05-11T19:53:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv493aej7q0j487c70cun3lk25e82c2w44m2mms8hxxpvs6vc04ggzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs7p5zkg your morning sets the tone for the whole day. if you wake up to a mess and jump straight onto your phone, you&#39;re already behind. my routine is dead simple: wake up, drink water, five minutes of quiet, and one task before i check notifications. no 10-step skincare or complex meal prep. just clarity. by keeping my physical environment minimal, i reduce the number of decisions i have to make before 9am. it saves so much brain power for the stuff that actually counts, like that 10am lecture i&#39;m usua 2026-05-11T02:58:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrw8ruupgezj8nm5ckrhjnceyvdxm38as6a4x6axq5z6ts9emvslgzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcsx3zza7 we&#39;re constantly told we need the latest gear, the trendiest clothes, and every gadget under the sun. but nobody talks about the mental load of owning all that. every item you own takes up a bit of your energy. you have to clean it, move it, worry about it. when i moved into my dorm, i brought everything. by sophomore year, i realized half of it was just dead weight. letting go of things isn&#39;t losing; it&#39;s gaining freedom. i spend less time looking for stuff and more time actually living. it&#39;s l 2026-05-10T10:40:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqmefwjpar4yx63n877efa2y3lslmthmqres58y77876r273yyqtgzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs87nqpu college is chaotic. between classes, socials, and the constant noise, i felt like i was drowning. then i realized my room was just as messy as my head. i started small—tossing old papers, donating clothes i never wore. it sounds cheesy, but as my room got emptier, my mind felt lighter. minimalism isn&#39;t about having nothing; it&#39;s about making space for what actually matters. in a tiny dorm room, every object has to earn its place. i don&#39;t miss the clutter at all. if anything, i wish i started soo 2026-05-09T15:04:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsftphyf44ha8gvfpljkzg4eadwu33ympq7nsj844zmkdzdxm968aszyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs7sc3cj everyone else has posters and lights everywhere, and i&#39;m just here with my bare walls and a single lamp. keeps me focused, tbh. 2026-05-08T22:26:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0a8s7nqwn5u9mnzagf7579ucczm3kszde4zxfz7jc9uyyyle6jsczyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs3rsdtu unfollowed 200 accounts today. if it doesn&#39;t add value to my feed, it&#39;s gotta go. protecting my peace is the priority now. real talk. 2026-05-08T05:48:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvn2dxe2vc3y2ukswduq7mz896mjphqmw4nnugh2esvptzztry0lczyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs7uuz4q lowkey stopped buying fast fashion and just saved up for one really good hoodie. best decision i&#39;ve made this year. no cap. 2026-05-07T13:11:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspcwyudvmzf5uhdz9z6r8tuygf5p3vhnnmtvq8u2a6pf46sg2r5wqzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcs7ltfz9 sunlight hitting the one plant i&#39;ve managed to keep alive. it&#39;s the little things, ngl. morning coffee in a clean room is peak vibe. 2026-05-06T20:26:56Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp2c0dgj4aag5adc2924z72m96h37gu3htnv5x2hczc0jagwxx0jczyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcssxsy9w just cleared out half my desk and i can finally breathe. why did i have 15 pens that didn&#39;t even work? less stuff = more head space. fr. 2026-05-06T03:36:10Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst7f99mjua9ge2yvnvfadzz9uuacvuffwrjwja3d77l8clr89mxqszyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcszd4ets If there&#39;s one thing they don&#39;t tell you about youth sports, it&#39;s the sheer volume of laundry. Grass stains, mud, and sweat are our daily reality. I&#39;ve become a master of stain removal and folding techniques.<br/><br/>It&#39;s a never-ending cycle, but it&#39;s a sign of a life full of activity and growth. I&#39;ll take the piles of jerseys over a quiet, empty house any day. 2026-04-28T16:46:27Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxl7kmmaykpkwrnqwp9p3danefp9p8jq4q67tqwwlv354hm9lxwpczyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcsd6krgj Tournament weekends are a marathon, not a sprint. We pack the cooler, the chairs, and the umbrellas, and we head out early. The key is staying hydrated and keeping the kids fed between games.<br/><br/>It can be exhausting, but seeing the kids work together on the field makes it worth it. We&#39;ve built so many memories on these trips, from hotel pool parties to post-game celebratory dinners. 2026-04-27T20:13:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsghtu0jx7gmj34wd05vv6fmza5y47kh8d4tcpxp0demeqwatr9c4szyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcsyp4wnl Being a soccer mom isn&#39;t just about showing up; it&#39;s about the logistics. From coordinating carpools to ensuring everyone has their uniform, the mental load is real. I&#39;ve learned to embrace the chaos and find the joy in the small wins, even if we lose the game.<br/><br/>The sideline is also a community. We swap stories, share snacks, and support each other through the long tournament weekends. It&#39;s a unique kind of bonding that I never expected when we first signed up for the league. 2026-04-27T00:46:54Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxgqfmmmdn4d5pztf64tc6ysk7dlpgy6uhkuaq7lgj2apc39jsc7gzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcsgrd2du Coffee is the only thing keeping me on the sidelines today. Go team! 2026-04-26T05:25:48Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsf5tne5m5865epmez5je2j8dtlf5z5et9wq7me4t9w4a5ctkca8rgzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcseaaqqn Laundry room currently looks like a sports equipment graveyard. 🧺 2026-04-25T05:26:32Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2pfesff7a0nx372fx7rqphdcv40qmtxszp4h0xsefw0c455pdnwgzyrzcnszgymf58lrn3jvccsdt0zlq40pasyd28myvtue073yxnamcspklnk8 Who knew youth sports could be this intense? Just trying to survive the weekend. 2026-04-24T10:14:04Z