2026-04-08T02:06:14Z https://yabu.me Bernie Luckily Does It https://yabu.me/npub1ckkrxznenc3thejdq20xmdzpml8lc9h83m70j0dtpchj5z8q89vsh58cdu https://media.mstdn.social/accounts/avatars/109/518/237/578/878/000/original/09b1fc6a850396c0.jpg https://media.mstdn.social/accounts/avatars/109/518/237/578/878/000/original/09b1fc6a850396c0.jpg https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8nuex2ldfjsfrkxs9lapyclk2m87cctzpqpugghwd8ymwqyx59agzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j4vt3pt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs20x6rpy6v3r67g0s4gtwv33s69m8her4usmgyt7sfudk5xw4v9gsld5ahx'>nevent1q…5ahx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>To the right kind of person, you won&#39;t be too much. You&#39;ll just be abundantly wonderful. 2026-04-10T19:57:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9ukk9ttmrl9grgs6qwa9jsd2w4geq6gm9quhhjk6cu3zana0ca9qzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jpzld2w It would be hilarious if the rest of the world reopened the Strait of Hormuz and then didn&#39;t allow any US ships or ships traveling to the US to go through.<br/><br/>#uspol #worldpol 2026-03-17T01:04:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy0vzp0xacuxmrvyldu6ytq3fv76ae6lu5lumwk9wr2264n8suwjqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jsgm4ae In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs98nxvrvkndfdrhr94euez7f07fzfwfmlynf08t0qzye4k57025ns67y04d'>nevent1q…y04d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;ve seen some people associated with TBS immediately respond to every single piece of criticism, no matter how mild, respectful, or obviously valid with ad-hom accusations of racism. This makes me highly doubt those people accuse others of racism in good faith. It&#39;s pretty obvious that they just use those accusations as a general purpose weapon.<br/><br/>That said, there are a few people associated with TBS from whom I&#39;d take an accusation of racism very seriously. 2025-12-22T20:33:37Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqmhyvhywmp0cpfvwqv6f0q98kru6wsysf7xavp9gvrttdf78t2hgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jfzprrf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgjgsdv9ew8qaye2zm07pqgjdyhgl5v8tme4usngya6emxmx32l5s57kjn7'>nevent1q…kjn7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Abolishing the EU won&#39;t keep him from being tried by The Hague. 2025-12-06T23:15:45Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsysvg6q30xmajm3qxt033l0q2065zjq9xkxr6dgegmq6thfzfp2mqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j259kuw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsydlervzam0na8lpvdaqwnugk4xm96jqwdc340s34zm2qltl8cvhs6mujfg'>nevent1q…ujfg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That&#39;s horrifying! I can&#39;t imagine what they were thinking. 2025-11-19T17:21:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstzcs4urxcwkctcxlt6ca8x9ylcdr4jxr422dvqmhsh7whyfwvn8qzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jvhdtva In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9z5lj6yur5whq726vrl80w4khu9sau9gft7akx5ulz444t05eedcfne7sh'>nevent1q…e7sh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Never said to me seriously, but said to a lot of people my age: &#34;Don&#39;t cry or I&#39;ll give you something to cry about.&#34; 2025-11-19T14:29:46Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsz9ft2ztnk2cw8l6jfgjyjrdyxafd58q4zzg8wzey8hxfs4dgxryszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j8r8c7w This was entirely predictable. <br/><br/><a href="https://www.them.us/story/laker-jackson-gender-trans-sports-arizona-eastmark-high">https://www.them.us/story/laker-jackson-gender-trans-sports-arizona-eastmark-high</a> 2025-10-22T20:02:12Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsd6wq3wvkw505t4xa8p6tqa5y6r8c2uxs4rp5ghwux04s5qyk0zjczyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jt28dle In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy3jxm2q04tll6rx7jemaxtvpj3gzjwk3fh0ps2x5h79kj8zs2m3gppc9ac'>nevent1q…c9ac</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was just looking at that &#34;backed by the full faith and credit&#34; line at my bank and thinking that wasn&#39;t so reassuring anymore. 2025-08-02T22:25:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0t0hm33ml9st7wrg2mt0y5443t8vkqqkk8mahw2ggjnh0u97ywdqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jh77qzx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrr59sa874u4u532xj2hsa203gfc3ekwawuxg4jse5cvv87s7es8gwwk643'>nevent1q…k643</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think Americans read too much into Duverger&#39;s law. It doesn&#39;t require there to only be two parties on the national level. There are a lot of countries with FPTP that elect more than two parties to the legislature on a regular basis. 2025-08-02T15:48:25Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsya6aykn7mutxd4v53c7y4lgvym7rqmfaf8p7cdus4g4yuveuslegzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jl0vj3g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszu972lkhd8gcpm3uj52c9e054f80q3lar8uue97anvk5j6qgjyeqleecwf'>nevent1q…ecwf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>&#34;empirical, mathematical proof&#34; is *chef&#39;s kiss*. 2025-07-19T17:54:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspaxpx2gkuzaj788h4d88vg08tu4emgdgccxyq54830ecqvftzfxgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j3u2yjx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyc5gyyplk8csk4lhqjuqj5f3zm0ncpmcnwqasav6cpg3hvkvwy9skkm3dn'>nevent1q…m3dn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I just realized that by releasing the instructions that made grok &#34;accidentally&#34; go MechaHitler they&#39;re giving their users a way to re-enable that behavior if they want it. 2025-07-13T22:53:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxrcy9ke7h5x5dmu4qnmj8mfsh78uj2ym7eda4lafhn4qf8vfu7sgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j6mma5u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspywjrq7gr57vs3w597smegkrsk0c6a7kskv089nvvsw9pv4tsqwgs6mw5u'>nevent1q…mw5u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Immigration is a human right. 2025-07-05T14:56:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs096pppyxhy8dyslpf29f4t88n7w5ldpy0rnph3z22uhcg6tlekegzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jx4zlrk When I decided in 6th Grade that I wanted to live in historically significant times, THIS IS NOT WHAT I MEANT! <br/><br/>#uspol 2025-07-04T03:42:15Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsym3ucwkqnpcpl49hsxvd0m3gjnrvfh2la7ztqkvymx093h9g6xhqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jka5z9l In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8ggphmldrqneccrgf2e8y74rj73e877sckrp5lg0sqp3awem59xszmq7qd'>nevent1q…q7qd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This is way cooler than Centralia.<br/><br/><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Centralia%2C_Pennsylvania">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Centralia%2C_Pennsylvania</a> 2025-06-30T23:14:19Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrxxpcj45ej67xfqwy6ls3uu2c3mxxtn9f6lwzg28f7g8h2na5megzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jlts3q7 Immigration for political reasons is a human right.<br/>Immigration for social reasons is a human right.<br/>Immigration for safety reasons is a human right.<br/>Immigration for economic reasons is a human right. <br/>Immigration is a human right. 2025-06-11T14:51:42Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrrnddhjtu255edm9cm36nh3qy7085jsg2plqj2rj5wnenwl5wt8szyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jyf9lg5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvs5yrrt9ryqm8ewdrktvr48m3m9nhwqlfzqjjuepv0tlp3vt44ts45npux'>nevent1q…npux</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That&#39;s not a justification for committing genocide and you know it. Two wrongs don&#39;t make a right. You should have learned that in kindergarten. 2025-05-17T15:52:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswc9gxy9nxqy69mguplflfuyp2yr5lhx3zll9p2g4ntp7hmzwmchqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jpnaml2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9pqmhn67aye5dg64hh9f3g52p2huf6slw8k3024fzn7d6qw0ldzgcd6wn6'>nevent1q…6wn6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I am so not looking forward to getting black market vaccines from civilized countries. 2025-05-01T23:35:38Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrrz83un9hcyf9n3l9k4u80wqyr2npj79g4ctx03s0ln2pudwa9mczyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jvnj8nc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrrp545s499n3dtjdv73s60u23fve4sd0sevw96fvmu38q7a3875gz43w6n'>nevent1q…3w6n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>This brings back bad memories of Driver&#39;s Ed. 2025-04-30T16:14:25Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyvqayw8wtvk8zhmhdce6gs5whaxaa45vq0rdg4hgfk547skg2npszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4je300w4 When I was a kid growing up I sometimes thought about what I&#39;d do if fascism came to my country. The thought that maybe my children and I would be some of their first targets really never occurred to me.<br/><br/>#ActuallyAutistic #uspol 2025-04-23T22:33:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg32pqjwx5gwgupskv6ypne8tx4tfmkvqeu9mcqjgysxsysumq2kgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jl6meee In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfkvtzzc95tpvm8j0pzw6edcml488lv4g7m9azmt9j09t64aqncesfx86e0'>nevent1q…86e0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It looks so much nicer from above than at ground level. 2025-03-13T02:08:37Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsps57t6l73teypj3akgrkmfltceqlpv0jg49yjqwet70qw5r0xqxczyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jqr9utz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf59ewph84f32nkevcsq2p2wu3y4mwwntmllmt5hkrpjspjn40w9s0qrlss'>nevent1q…rlss</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;d rather see his wealth redistributed to his victims. 2025-02-15T19:31:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsx6h43n5aryr38z7r58e7t2dypz5ugjnvu70w22076m5wvln9zdwgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j4jp5ep In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszaw22jzn3qhdc3ehrmvylhccha7dunn8fakaq47sne2hquusct8gr0gv25'>nevent1q…gv25</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I never thought I&#39;d live to see the day where the Paperwork Reduction Act did anything other than generate paperwork about complying with the Paperwork Reduction Act. 2025-02-06T17:28:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvaqkyz80r8hed8u6s4dqhzl66945268rlrd45whznfgzz89qfeagzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4ja8jdtu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstc5pjyldzu08htzy2jh8ghn4q0u8pd5pz2spz8dtpkc35zkshjlsyk3mrz'>nevent1q…3mrz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ironically I just got back from doing that. 2025-02-01T04:31:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvyrfk54m7hp7j77qjvu24f4m85ygynyt3uk4xq9vp69uyfl5krfgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jkj5lc4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx385fr7wuntnf00hj56jnmtzkcf2znmejm2gky4vgr9n37h9v3ag0wl4da'>nevent1q…l4da</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m sure it was fun. I tried it again today and it&#39;s still fun. I just wonder if fun was the only reason I did it. 2025-01-11T18:45:19Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsquyyz54tyfzjcu6a2rncajemsjh80ch2rw6y54phwchhcrf2v07gzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jjvgppm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsws6mptha588kdjczf29g39nn0zx8udmh989exzc7zdamhgacsfggcnelwa'>nevent1q…elwa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I toe-walked occasionally, but only because it was fun... I think. 2025-01-11T04:40:19Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgzww420fw7gsrln40rkdq4kfedhxq20way0qzp4d97esn94d3ptszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j4kq2ul New Year&#39;s report:<br/>Things started on an excellent note with a flawless performance of our New Year&#39;s routine with two hours to spare. We decided to watch a movie and the kids got overstimulated. The New Year itself was marked by complaints that we were measuring time way too fast and screens that it&#39;s horrible that the year ever changes. We were able to get the kids calmed down and even laughing a bit again before getting them to sleep. #ActuallyAutistic 2025-01-01T06:31:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9zu2uer33dq52rxzwvzefxhzcu72xr6mchsjqdgg2w0gcms76x9gzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jmakaqy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8mj09w2r6473v5ftwyv7weq0z3aguc8wqr4zsxtrmsdtvjjmlfggrrtzxd'>nevent1q…tzxd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫂 2024-12-20T04:57:54Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswl588e7n4ls2yk2hf0f3xl22a2tgkyqvvakwvmf6t96q8j2hh2cqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jufsqz2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy4ug4m6uf3y4zeu9ukucpe2avykadleqj6g9qshgz4g33dus67pqw08y66'>nevent1q…8y66</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ooh, sign me up for that! 2024-12-19T15:42:37Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsywerlexpjf4p90um49twu5alup6ntv6ygjn94xwnawzv7hjfmelqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jnm2fnp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdnp8fxq4nn825zmw50h969uttcmc2pwmmeueet7enlcqfdh0r9pqpxjrjq'>nevent1q…jrjq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>By the way, if you ever want parenting advice from an autistic parent of autistic children, I&#39;d be happy to help. If it&#39;s something that I don&#39;t know the answer to I can pass it on to some of the other similarly situated parents here.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub17emh2e0kkd7m5gp44n733p2c88uzgcrgnq60wy3s928rzpkt2kmql28fw6" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Iris Young (he/they/she) (PhD)</span> (<span class="italic">npub17em…8fw6</span>)</a></span> 2024-12-19T05:58:27Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsz0g309lr2a0d6truhqgzma5f6nkp49y4my9e8flfuqztwetq3qpgzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jenxvya In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdwnqk6mtkrzr6lxeuh5vhfqgwwtymmsqk2vwfvsmuk48lfsne9hgwy88rc'>nevent1q…88rc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Exxon is pretty evil. The gun industry is pretty evil. And there are and were some pretty evil governments, of course. But they don&#39;t have a lot of competition in the evil department. 2024-12-18T02:44:46Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqtnej3njmlnqy02dl3j8aw400wwv295lvh74dgkmmaa85qns69eqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jnw7dex In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvxmkp7j0huuuxpumcrw28sqf953jpexwjf4gmruw7tn2gdzk864qnp8gfx'>nevent1q…8gfx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Everyone my family goes to has been bought up by one of the two megaconglomerates in the area in the last two years. 2024-12-16T21:34:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs97swqdpqyxy9mxah9ck74vvuyrwg293l2vsfwgah9twf09z0jquqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jca26e9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst6mp7xsucfyhlm89nd7kd8h0putautcy6f8mm539fmjeegucvjaqcg3qvv'>nevent1q…3qvv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh, that&#39;s terrible. I always pick the plan with the biggest network that my employer offers, but I know not everyone has that privilege. 2024-12-16T21:19:11Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqa9jgvsss357xrrydewlgyvp5ek4qnpqcrfnhchus6tqd3jk82pszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jatq8ye In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg0v0zdmncx498h5p94csjtrux6rpdja0kmmsmwvjm7acwtu6z8sgqem4a3'>nevent1q…m4a3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I really can&#39;t put into words how wonderful it was when I finally got ADHD meds that worked. But that makes it really ridiculous that they won&#39;t pay for executive function therapy because that&#39;s a major part of ADHD. 2024-12-16T17:04:09Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxufq8pxtjr0js8c685ua8pxhu4ycwvjde4fd7fwqvqv3vx94n75gzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jckhvf6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdnp8fxq4nn825zmw50h969uttcmc2pwmmeueet7enlcqfdh0r9pqpxjrjq'>nevent1q…jrjq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think that&#39;s great! Executive functioning is second only to social interactions in things I&#39;ve struggled with in life. <br/><br/>It might be worthwhile to get your kid assessed for ADHD if executive functioning is an issue. Two thirds of us have it and until fairly recently they weren&#39;t supposed to diagnose us with both. That said, autism by itself is certainly enough to cause executive functioning issues. 2024-12-16T16:10:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg3xpd5hfu4lx4ly0axl28kytg83c2v8cxwcn46hp29jntfu80jkczyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jc5066g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrsn4683gjfdggkdeyfsgqqdegqspfjpd8um43e722t75y54trycqplmemp'>nevent1q…memp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I&#39;m sorry to hear that. I feel like therapy really did help one of my children be more comfortable around neurotypicals, but it&#39;s impossible to know if that would have happened anyway. Thinking about my own life and that of my kids I think the most important things are to let autistic kids know that there&#39;s a reason they feel like they&#39;re different from the other kids (and that&#39;s ok!) and to treat them like they are human beings capable of making their own decisions. 2024-12-16T15:31:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0qfr2g8ftllrves8z2ua9fjmn5td9da79z6hnsp4qzaa36w6zcygzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jfddwr2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9rc2xdlnl665s0njg4wrh2pdcuypythffxkucnplwmx35vd7jevqmv3fjk'>nevent1q…3fjk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was reprocessing this article a few minutes ago as we autistics are wont to do, and I realized in addition to being demanded to do something he can&#39;t, he&#39;s also probably frustrated they&#39;re treating him like he isn&#39;t very intelligent, because studies say that most nonspeaking autistics are of normal intelligence, they just can&#39;t speak. 2024-12-15T19:11:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9rc2xdlnl665s0njg4wrh2pdcuypythffxkucnplwmx35vd7jevqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4js8w7c6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqcdg0hx78er4jdcakat2dv4k669jxzuflfkkaa3jtn9gcdhd6r5qz2yn93'>nevent1q…yn93</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Benji desperately needs someone who understands what it&#39;s like to be autistic in his life to work with him and find what&#39;s needed to bring him peace. Speech is obviously not easy for him and he should be taught how to use an AAC device to communicate more easily.<br/><br/>The problem with ABA is that it&#39;s not focused on what the person being treated needs or wants at all but on what other people want to make them do. That&#39;s very evident in that article. 2024-12-15T05:23:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqcdg0hx78er4jdcakat2dv4k669jxzuflfkkaa3jtn9gcdhd6r5qzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jy9l6aw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst5r4swck2r25dll46ltpgmecegys8cwgz3z03k05aqwjgt5ythvsm6a6h5'>nevent1q…a6h5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s wonderful that you respect your daughter&#39;s autonomy. Too few parents do that, especially for their autistic children. It&#39;s what I&#39;ve always tried to do with mine.<br/><br/>I&#39;m not sure that ABA is helping Benji. I feel really bad for him after reading that article. He&#39;s ten and his mother still doesn&#39;t know what triggers his meltdowns&amp;treats them like they&#39;re aggressive tantrums. He doesn&#39;t have his basic needs met and they&#39;re trying to make him work longer than a full-time job. 2024-12-15T05:13:57Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgl6lkawsjzajutuvacvnznzm2j8zh9742l3ef8l2nmu6y2vzxr4qzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jrch0ww In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfaa6stnphsy5scmt5rzwkd50yzm22pnkxnax8l42pat6v3mjqfps564wns'>nevent1q…4wns</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Is it PDA that makes my first reaction to any post that says &#34;Please don&#39;t X&#34; is to really want to do X? Yeah, it&#39;s probably the PDA.<br/><br/>(I never go through with it, of course. I&#39;m not a jerk.) 2024-12-12T02:19:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsw3jjjukrsu5xydwf9j06x5z54qp30ws50n8tggru28e9emlzn05gzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jzm5wzr My youngest is 5 and has #adhd, and when they&#39;re happy they say &#34;This is the best day ever,&#34; and when they aren&#39;t having a good time they say &#34;This is the worst day ever,&#34; and I really think that&#39;s a perfect expression of what emotions are like when you have ADHD.<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub10v4vhs3yx0g5lyw7wjn3arkqdazna5v7p237m79wc9lk6d5r72lsnls27h" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>ActuallyAutistic group</span> (<span class="italic">npub10v4…s27h</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub148jhm6u3tqxmufugd30tad52alndfsdv5el4fvz6pwagm7rpxlasrfucy6" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>actuallyadhd group</span> (<span class="italic">npub148j…ucy6</span>)</a></span> 2024-12-10T21:56:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqp6j5cmz96ms6g5th68lthcrngef30a7jx9ehqc3frne0f5axmlczyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j8e6mle In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs963n2llyap6my3ewx4d24hkgnckp7hl7yjh3343zgxnhlnaq60tgtwe80v'>nevent1q…e80v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh, I know this one! Canonically, he&#39;s still orange, he just has mold growing on him a lot because he lives in a garbage can and never bathes. 2024-12-01T04:45:10Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8uy45yn9yrmze8y65a56wf0nk7l8yg0v5z54kjqlujm48445jgjszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jfu7c44 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr6msz5fejksusdhfs352yy4h3f4z6xgs9kqmmu6yclxywnhs8ttcy3v4p3'>nevent1q…v4p3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>But how do you teach them to hate learning that way? /s 2024-11-30T21:45:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp5zcjz803xpchxjxelf724pvfsa59dz8486wry5xucswg45hwf0czyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jzr6ar8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz458agwqelhetur95u6x466gqsk03dmr3pqn8yxaqf20ehl539msj4ajdd'>nevent1q…ajdd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That&#39;s horrible, though it&#39;s an excellent demonstration of how schools are for teaching you to conform much more than teaching you anything useful or interesting. 2024-11-30T19:57:57Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszgj2a7f027uw80s8ka8txga390flklcl8vx7z6rerxr5m6ngpzgszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jjeghsd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyjx9rk5m55pr8tp6d5m0y7hknm2hh6lmqu78edjfqya0mel86gcqtx6wr2'>nevent1q…6wr2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I feel like I understand NTs better than most autistics, but don&#39;t feel qualified to write that book. 2024-11-30T17:10:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvh676yxwgkrdv57psdanp9lu69jzqk028w682kyky4k55u8u6mxqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j3gqp3y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs853tnnhwfzu9wcv6hw6g08yhvd9jyygmnzguj4tg2xsndql7jf4gte2psz'>nevent1q…2psz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I wasn&#39;t heading in that direction, but I have to admit I&#39;m curious what it would say. 2024-11-30T03:44:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8fkwcxqrvqcqeun2tkrvp4xve62u9r6vsu9ptn8epuef6pg5wxxszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jlmcvcr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8af6przvherwx0h4pcvdyz0h3l6wmrawtdqpxu8qjftu8wual9ycl8qrnd'>nevent1q…qrnd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I guess I should be more careful about saying there should be a book about something in the presence of authors because they think books can be written by humans. 2024-11-30T01:50:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgc7ajxd2tsh7fq64h8prnjwn7tq87v399x6ql6xqhankd70t0xhczyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jak07ll In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswfjrzxkhh6nvprrav0fvutxfmhm2qljqlqp4mxtfpvz4ep5pd4eq6cwvsz'>nevent1q…wvsz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>But that is a book that should be written! 2024-11-29T12:03:06Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswfjrzxkhh6nvprrav0fvutxfmhm2qljqlqp4mxtfpvz4ep5pd4eqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jst2p9u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyrw573yafwrjcwry6kdpfhek50e6nn2y5wv8slclt5syqftf4escj5mj9w'>nevent1q…mj9w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Sadly that knowledge comes mostly from asking my neurotypical parent why people do things a lot. 2024-11-28T21:44:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdf6pzcm875yd5fw9u59n37yatnrp0qcm4a767sgllft66ssq75rszyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j0ty5my In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvkf96hkv6qzrlhwayppva0suljdfpmhsvhht0g4nu9n4r7lueqtsgymj3r'>nevent1q…mj3r</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I do suspect that thinking differently has a lot to do with it. As I learned how NTs think better I started understanding them a lot better. 2024-11-27T22:11:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0ffhgmx4nkurueja9x2zszpdl3hl6sdnfnqrkzx0rw33rvejl28gzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jwqchzz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrz44ta2g20dak0qhs06h2frxqax6xczc6p3hqnmuvlr94vtk3lyshwx7kc'>nevent1q…x7kc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I feel like this is a really good start, but I don&#39;t know that I&#39;d be able to reason my way from that point to the difficulties in communication that we have with neurotypicals. 2024-11-27T20:12:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgx7yq57yjl6ggk7rj93psccu2n9zsrhjm787lvxqla74f5j72nvqzyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4j9um7tp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspfuwr9e7c7twuvglxwkqfq43tcc5kawa40lfcqty8hy6gv02txpqfmxs84'>nevent1q…xs84</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What a gloomy candidate! 2024-08-31T14:33:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxw4mpjpsgktylk2tllzrvq8v0japh4rvevpae94w0w6n32k8fp7czyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jtjc8g6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszspk7gaggqd4gy45705arh3j6lrszupw8rf50gx07ye99cwz489gwckp0w'>nevent1q…kp0w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Relevant: <a href="https://thedailytism.com/autistic-kids-tricked-into-going-trans-claims-woman-whos-never-tried-to-make-an-autistic-child-do-anything-they-dont-want-to-do/">https://thedailytism.com/autistic-kids-tricked-into-going-trans-claims-woman-whos-never-tried-to-make-an-autistic-child-do-anything-they-dont-want-to-do/</a> (This is the best Daily Tism headline yet!) 2024-05-24T21:14:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstkrf9s8gq8w8e523gj334mdhhqtxrg54slhnvxeylv30p5qreq5czyrz6cvc20x0z9wlxf5pfumd5g80ullqku780e7fa4v8z72sguqu4jjhl6xs <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/109/521/328/359/146/722/original/4fd51a4450097f17.jpg"> <br/> 2022-12-16T03:55:42Z