2026-07-11T04:09:24Z https://yabu.me Kit Malone https://yabu.me/npub1c0zznzucrgqs7et3qkag5ywkcsllnmtaku5lad3kes496emwerhqxl23st https://media.fediforge.com/7e89635c7aa040f7b8e274a5567a3c7a/accounts/avatars/109/666/261/936/506/852/original/47b5635845c4c879.png https://media.fediforge.com/7e89635c7aa040f7b8e274a5567a3c7a/accounts/avatars/109/666/261/936/506/852/original/47b5635845c4c879.png https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv80azudjtdrueqqevja88tq2gturhn9gd7am3qgzww29aauhn7qczyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywucjkwj5 Because I have to post things there for my job, I sometimes accidentally see the Facebook timeline. <br/><br/>It&#39;s just an actual stream of neurosis 2026-07-11T02:39:40Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspzft5lwhf4v26j5akysmpfeeh5jea0llym5e7k5amhfgpqqvr6kczyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuahg3dt Just because I believe detransitioners (who represent a miniscule minority of people who&#39;ve received trans affirming care) deserve empathy and care doesn&#39;t mean that I think the detrans activists (themselves an even tinier minority of detransitioners) should get to weigh in on whether or not I am to be &#34;allowed&#34; access to medical care. 2026-02-25T13:25:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0zlqzul74rd43np2xa6gcs6pqrh8l9qnlccesk9u8xpre45pt2sgzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuskgn0q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs88q875at70ajyuxmfzpttkdxdqu0ef9kdrzhptnuvr99dq0e0secpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43qe809yf'>nevent1q…09yf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpq4t58esfhadcdw548r0hh32hlz0j0l9a9034dqteh09e0y7g700pqg8l7em" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpq4t58esfhadcdw548r0hh32hlz0j0l9a9034dqteh09e0y7g700pqg8l7em</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…l7em</span>)</a></span> facebook groups are just too casual and too easy and full of people who aren&#39;t safe. I don&#39;t organize with people whose hand I haven&#39;t shaken and whose face I don&#39;t know these days. All those big discord servers and huge group Signal chats are just infiltrated all to hell. We used to do it with shoe-leather and maybe I&#39;m a fossil but I still think that works best. 2026-02-03T19:36:48Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv8xzcv5m0mllafdvv5h0y8sc58qqth2sky8cmc3szq2mcj5uh4dszyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuu5gczk Facebook - specifically Facebook - has done so much damage to a generation of grassroots organizers. 2026-02-03T19:26:12Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr8aus8apwt29gk72n3uedjcvuyzwp04mnnuav6pta8lqljpm84aqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywu8yadkm We&#39;ve reached the point where Trump&#39;s distractions are actually *as* *bad* for him politically as the things he&#39;s trying to distract us from. The ouroboros of bullshit has finally eaten its tail. 2026-01-30T23:52:14Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2ctyh7at3p478k3e3jezz9wmdl4eszp2ujje0gwp2mfnme0cdy5szyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuayzxa0 I&#39;m working on setting up on an online event that would require me to sell tickets. What&#39;s the most non-evil ticketing service out there or is that just not real? 2026-01-15T14:36:42Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspmue5dsa7tc0cjch00ajmfchwsfau7vdavamqz0mz3rd660x4q6czyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywujuny2j Planes, Trains, and Automobiles is really the only viable Thanksgiving movie 2025-11-27T03:20:55Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswpyjmwxey65vzszmn9lkrcc9eey2f8qlnrdxqnd4q4dzat26tcjgzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywu3m4f6h Already on the timeline: Takes explaining how literally sweeping an election year is somehow evidence that Democrats can&#39;t win elections. 2025-11-05T03:28:57Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstpwrwq03ncn9he8mr2ezt5323wy25ana65c4q9vp49v4642rna4qzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywug6qnp4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvppmkj6znkrcsead8895lv76e4cgdvc06u4e73v9fhyxt3e32mfcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7p2lqwy'>nevent1q…lqwy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kytcqyz7eha4sj04wxxedgth2hrt3yfl2w7v3434perngv8tyaza9prpjwnnkz46" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Cy</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…kz46</span>)</a></span> yes. that is definitely an accurate takeaway. 2025-10-25T19:22:29Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspfntzvwer357faquc4vul8zhdal8dr49x2fykrgu3e9z35el4fvqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuu5l390 I&#39;m not uncritical of processed foods. <br/><br/>But the conservative obsession with them is very much about convincing women to feel super guilty about using innovations that enabled us to unshackle ourselves from the kitchen. 2025-10-25T18:01:17Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgnjxedukhzee4ar5sjddlum99xe7mzn3q7zpjek3cd0p90uxew6szyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywunxfpvu I too find it a bit rich that people in the moveable middle seem more animated by the destruction of a building than by the litany of cruelties but you also don&#39;t get to choose which symbolic moments animate people, you just need to take full advantage of them when you get the chance. 2025-10-24T02:09:19Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsq5ahdz8e9lnmgphnyv853akt2wd08qdqvwcnkaczd8tg50485hpgzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywu2nzdn5 OPEN THREAD <br/><br/>Are you one of the growing number of techies finding creative ways to use old or used hardware? <br/><br/>Any success stories or inspo that you&#39;d like to share?<br/><br/>#EverydayThrift #Survival #Recycle 2025-08-07T20:07:17Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvxetnt4hskjqunfa6llx88jjdg3xa4af7etfp5n2snhzhyqr3vgczyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuvm99w6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsymm7jh3ta0fatmqdnpy3xyyeanzels8zkh949gxe7lzrtatg9g8cpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qa0du34'>nevent1q…du34</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqvstpj0laezxpwdtvzqkrafr42gzqrs6d3e9ykr509drvc6zquhgsqj6ehd" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqvstpj0laezxpwdtvzqkrafr42gzqrs6d3e9ykr509drvc6zquhgsqj6ehd</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…6ehd</span>)</a></span> I&#39;m a big fan of self reliance and an experienced practitioner of a number of survival skills, homesteading, and all kinds of other things. I believe in the whole DIY thing. <br/><br/>I just think the idea that you can &#34;go it alone&#34; is toxic and at the heart of a *lot* of what is wrong in masculine-centered, xenophobic survivalist culture. <br/><br/>Nobody ever talks about the component of self-reliance that involves being a good neighbor, but when I lived on a farm we knew the value of it. 2025-08-02T19:58:53Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9s5gq4tc2z89ed5023fx8pjrm3tc58efapwapswjkjzvcr23ddvqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywufen7zz Individual self-sufficiency is a capitalist myth. Everything about our individual lives is made possible by the work of many hands. This has been true for as long as there have been people. 2025-08-01T19:21:15Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsre3zkeu8kyrc595q8seu0rtnklh4v3ux7zh88gxqqqkr7rwykn0gzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywupl52ww I don&#39;t know if The Phoenician Scheme is Wes Anderson&#39;s best, but it is certainly the most refined expression of his aesthetic to date. 2025-06-15T11:15:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8pzk5ytmcgxewp2k4px6uy5ygyxtjxmxcpn0y8sxzcrn3aesw52qzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywua27dl9 The assignment tomorrow is to post pictures and articles about #Pride celebrations and the #NoKings events. <br/><br/>No coverage or postings about that pathetic, fascist military stroke-off that is apparently happening in DC. Who cares? Sounds stupid. 2025-06-13T22:34:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgqc6w79rxjmw3v69y4hdah4rj0nxff737zvs427zgrqwegn4xwrqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywu2klxnq If you could only share one piece of practical howto-type information about the #fediverse with the general non-techy public, what would it be? 2025-04-17T18:16:56Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9twuv7th6fug52vlxc35qjwaf6pekgksa5ealf04yp6fwyhraukqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuyqhxvw Felt froggy and got our raised beds set up with my daughter this morning! Went a little overboard on the design, but after years of using raised beds at other homes I&#39;&#39;ve gotten pretty specific about what I want.<br/><br/>These are made of cedar (to resist rot a bit) with pvc attachment points on the corners and sides. That lets me have neat, configurable climbing trellises and poles from year to year depending on my needs. <br/><br/>#EverydayThrift #Gardening #DIY<br/><br/> <img src="https://cdn.masto.host/hoosiersocial/media_attachments/files/114/209/168/637/644/200/original/b15584c49c5230b2.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://cdn.masto.host/hoosiersocial/media_attachments/files/114/209/168/660/064/910/original/9a3ffbd742902915.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://cdn.masto.host/hoosiersocial/media_attachments/files/114/209/168/650/546/222/original/6e137606d29889b9.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://cdn.masto.host/hoosiersocial/media_attachments/files/114/209/168/539/149/660/original/0a7974d358115201.jpg"> 2025-03-23T01:40:20Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst30dskve3d35mf4av0uws5hups4qq87mev6x4lzqtkgmmcnw4wxqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuzk3zj3 ICE is officially the gestapo - as many of us predicted it would become the moment it was created under the Bush admin. It&#39;s only a matter of time before they stop using even the poor excuse of &#34;noncitizenship&#34; for disappearing people who are speaking out - if they haven&#39;t already. 2025-03-20T21:26:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstjsywfwf9dumes64jhjy04kgfnlfwvzdmnwasrrl5w02f8rfkkcczyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuysel24 That &#34;first they came for&#34; poem says you should speak up for certain minorities because eventually you&#39;ll be a target too.<br/><br/>But you know, you could also speak up simply because it&#39;s wrong to target people. Self interest isn&#39;t the only reason to oppose oppression. 2025-03-02T12:42:16Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswgxrxc75jtxkh5r863c72ytx7prq3py0elknv06wkl67gmh9xn0gzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuvylrv0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2urlzueeyhes5yfyy4nu5p2ud8ez956umxuvu4u4fs73dzlcqw6cpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qggc30h'>nevent1q…c30h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqedwcnr5nqgg37nnakk6weljvngy2hgwv3wquwj2a8cyn9yh5n6eqzrlse8" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqedwcnr5nqgg37nnakk6weljvngy2hgwv3wquwj2a8cyn9yh5n6eqzrlse8</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…lse8</span>)</a></span> Promoting to #HoosierMast! 2025-02-27T19:57:09Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy4ltr9vptkppr99fp0k0t78k95qhz6t8vrct8rhanuwxjyk37zyszyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywusee7cv Once again do not put the violent/illegal shit that you want to do, are planning to do, are thinking someone should do, are personally in favor of etcetera on public fediverse servers some of which are run by minorities and vulnerable people. It does not make you look cool. 2025-02-18T03:44:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr7ksfmgu26r0vwr0rx3pelta66dr9fkk6n2dn9jvfpvxcyvw8kwqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywux5han2 I think I&#39;m probably more alert to the news than most but, babies, I am making it these days by setting aside most of it and focusing on the fights that are in front of me. The ones I&#39;m most qualified to fight. I find that makes me less overwhelmed and more efficient. 2025-02-17T18:28:48Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsy7z22hsrzkllm87fceyggvvd2mmzw6rk9zse9n37p8ga4kqpjj3szyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywudj3tp5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxth6xfuym6xej4fnqagqmgyjrrg7pzu7k4exqp9ve6nxf4gfkwngpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qg980r5'>nevent1q…80r5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Don&#39;t give *me* a hug. Go donate to our local #Indiana #queer and #trans led orgs who are taking it on the chin right now:<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpq0s7edxsm5l2cgx8v4gtz7d89fd8ah5njk4e850d8h6jz0wa5l8hsxg58ss" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpq0s7edxsm5l2cgx8v4gtz7d89fd8ah5njk4e850d8h6jz0wa5l8hsxg58ss</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…58ss</span>)</a></span> <br/><a href="https://www.iyg.org/giving/">https://www.iyg.org/giving/</a><br/><br/>#GenderNexus <br/><a href="https://www.gendernexus.org/support">https://www.gendernexus.org/support</a><br/><br/>(disclosure: both of them are my clients and I&#39;m terrifically proud of that) 2025-02-05T19:52:09Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0x0tt3nqj80c7u2wa94mrskc76dv2tzrr2a2el2f4l7e20c5a4sqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuhxq7yd Why does every single Ramones song seem Christmas music? 2023-12-23T16:44:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs99u3reg6frd7ufc0szvtvg6a3vxacrvvu6wr7hjhjwmwwu9zukvszyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuw5q9r6 I&#39;ve been assaulted by Nazis twice at work. I&#39;ve had Nazi guns trained on me at work. I&#39;ve had my name, face, and place of employment shared by Proud Boys, who&#39;ve shown up to find me. I get hate mail (not just email -- real letters) regularly wishing me death.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t think those facts make my positions more/less correct and I dislike how Extremely Online Activist Culture encourages folks to use Nazi Violence Bona Fides to sneer about someone else&#39;s ethical positions. 2023-10-27T12:43:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspu05z3g0h9arjp3lrcsknvts6xs69s3qsgaxmnw04pnf7n2w4j9qzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuh8f5ek In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf8trhmx09y3qkg0n3fkax9lwrxudwwc5wv6c0ew6yvhjhxwxzq2spz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q4am8ht'>nevent1q…m8ht</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1zdp33shl69xr0uq3x8n5gsjykq9upycwh6nqm02c3f6x0frrn0dq42vqv8" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>npub1zdp33shl69xr0uq3x8n5gsjykq9upycwh6nqm02c3f6x0frrn0dq42vqv8</span> (<span class="italic">npub1zdp…vqv8</span>)</a></span> once, on a lark, I went to the Creation Museum thinking it would be good for laffs and instead this thought punched me in the stomach repeatedly the whole time. 2023-08-25T21:52:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqndy3eadjh6da2jfg4dqlj748mwqzufrgta2vc2d989fhr3zr6tqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywunpurpn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy7wymuwl5meqsyhv9se5txtgapxyy2f3nyzhm0k05vftweaj7x7gpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43q9umcy8'>nevent1q…mcy8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1ddpukxz4rkcadch7gu5hqre42lju5spyg2ph747yvgysathy4ulqye2tax" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>npub1ddpukxz4rkcadch7gu5hqre42lju5spyg2ph747yvgysathy4ulqye2tax</span> (<span class="italic">npub1ddp…2tax</span>)</a></span> I never have a steady answer for those kinds of questions. Certainly his tone and phrasing will always be part the DNA of my playing. Like a lot of people who turned out to be assholes. 2023-08-25T21:16:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsf43nayx8hqzv6xs4j2jmztxm6hq66tr7x0ht7k99fy5xkhk7qtfqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywugs775g I&#39;m a guitarist, and I always admired Santana for his fierce dedication to making space for Latinx music in the mostly white-co-opted-blues-bro world of his era. And I absolutely love his playing. It breaks my heart that he has hatred for people like me, but that&#39;s the story of being #trans I&#39;m afraid. Finding out your heroes hate you. I can hold those two truths quite well, as I have with so many people who were much closer to me. 2023-08-25T20:32:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqddzw076cy5m783vzqc0w0hrwskx8k9fye39tlgnkhdj5dff98rqzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywuu87uhv Everytime I do a captcha that requires me to identify things in a photo to prove I&#39;m not a bot I can&#39;t help but feel like I&#39;m also training a bot to help it prove that it is not a bot. 2023-08-20T20:33:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9ejmr9pak4045598chkqen2vc5w3w05t4sqxkumgzcfksq077vugzyrpug2vtnqdqzrm9wyzm4zs36mzrl70d0kmjnl4kxmxz5ht8dmywual2qvn Turns out planning your dream wedding is really fucking hard, people. 2023-07-17T19:56:08Z