2026-07-09T05:48:59Z https://yabu.me lifewithtrees https://yabu.me/npub18xsmga0fk84jk93nvw70sdhrq8erjnqvmgw0e760dad2fusyzxqszl6w4r https://media.mstdn.social/accounts/avatars/109/275/440/085/410/322/original/cb7ba850e8af2bd1.jpg https://media.mstdn.social/accounts/avatars/109/275/440/085/410/322/original/cb7ba850e8af2bd1.jpg https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfgu5s4kgsuv6x84c9yfqd62j6d7pxtafszgke2tvarmg6syfh3qqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczvsh6t6 May the energy of spring live within you 🥰<br/><br/>#Bloomscrolling #Flowers<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/116/408/083/134/405/300/original/1cf2120dff121425.png"> <br/> 2026-04-15T09:47:56Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqk9r4yu4rdprwnmk6c6q25dlwcnpznu9tdk3nj7vv2580h6zvy5gzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcznwpx72 The #Welsh phrase <br/><br/>&#34;dod yn ôl at fy nghoed&#34;,<br/><br/> meaning <br/><br/>&#34;to return to a balanced state of mind&#34;, <br/><br/>literally means<br/><br/> &#34;to return to my #trees&#34;<br/>🌲🌳🌳🌲🌳🌲<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/116/396/890/480/836/117/original/b59703fc642d8bf8.png"> <br/> 2026-04-13T10:20:17Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspkmlrjs506jpvr57f63j0yw5s050nc4r7fsc8xenw3t4m5cg3l5gzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcztsvfjv You cannot buy the revolution.
<br/>You cannot make the revolution.
<br/>You can only be the revolution.
<br/>It is in your spirit, or it is nowhere.<br/>
- Ursula K. Le Guin<br/><br/>#nature #revolution<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/116/148/396/717/324/003/original/285a90d04d4745bf.png"> <br/> 2026-02-28T13:05:06Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswq70u0ev5e86w6jr8j8dr4utmmwchqqh7y3nkak3s3fr7rwfdhsczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczu4he5z In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2a2cmcefy33f689s2t2wud9mnr4rdl7xvul39fg6pq88zvsr6vgqcjmw6h'>nevent1q…mw6h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>selling the disease along with the cure is the same thing I’ve felt from religion. I guess that’s where the crossover is: it’s scams all the way down. <br/><br/>If what my separation from religion has taught me holds for this as well, then we don’t need to trust AI or tech, we need to throw it out and learn to trust ourselves. ❤️ 2026-02-22T21:41:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszg2dm0xdjh8qldsrlg8kf93ys2q7x5f7quhzde2gcjzeaz4zke9szyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz3lvplm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqzegu95397ry0tkpxlj0zxltfd4cs5ae3se2nu356cw323heumxs9efcau'>nevent1q…fcau</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>totally agree. <br/><br/>It’s like how recipe websites become useless as they added so much useless text for SEO and so they have “jump to recipe” buttons to actually find what you want. <br/><br/>The AI chatbots are like that button except, terribly, the only reason it’s needed is because of all the AI slop in the first place. <br/><br/>And then we have to rely on it as the entire internet is noise and no signal. Tech companies made the mess then push the tool to clean 2026-02-22T12:27:32Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0fq8qd46kuqnlpwmm8y3rqsz9cvcs6jasrdhg7gw4le2cr2mprdszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczjvy26u It’s so weird seeing American folks worried about the drop in Canadian tourism and saying it’s due to Canadians having “hard feelings” and wondering why we can’t just put them aside. <br/><br/>It’s gaslighting and yet another reason not to go. Yeesh. 🙄 2026-02-15T13:52:17Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswnneg28ewt0tyefl62h25pklfz9gj70zc0pxvasa2cpuq8vxm4rgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz7m44k0 When things are hard,<br/><br/>Look for the soft. <br/><br/>#nature #photography #Flowers<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/116/065/474/981/359/467/original/390446ae00856d14.png"> <br/> 2026-02-13T21:38:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdvmsxpp3qhsdpfx7mu50c73th2sjz6mx8s4grhvcq42w5qvfvfhszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczv4paay Do you find the #fediverse to be cliquish?<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2026-01-31T15:12:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsf2rl5d2gqd0hjdjh696m7a3htrhu6ukm2t2qzd9ehd5ldf0g2y4qzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz7xzkgs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszw05cvszynccmlj9qdn3u8ltx98smuwdhysg2n5u8a3nn2phwytspvt28d'>nevent1q…t28d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Queer education for non queer folks. <br/><br/>( Learned through our collective experience)<br/><br/>#lgbtq #Education<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/967/390/957/699/862/original/c8b1cfeedddc8754.png"> <br/> 2026-01-27T13:54:09Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszw05cvszynccmlj9qdn3u8ltx98smuwdhysg2n5u8a3nn2phwytszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczkqfug3 If it isn’t yet clear, folks who are anti-trans are also pro-fascist. <br/><br/>Queer people are the canaries in the coal mine who deserve to be heard and not gaslit and dismissed. <br/><br/>#fuckICE #lgbtq #Trans 2026-01-27T13:45:11Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqstx9qnyu6ns4vm2sx0n4re8aaznd6rz6jy46qnexmw8rxh9spc3wgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczvpen08 The internet does not stop. <br/><br/>How often do you check in (doomscrolling included) online news to feel you are “up to date”?<br/><br/>#AskFedi #News #mentalhealth 2026-01-21T21:22:12Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp6rsaq7tmct59a3uh3d5c20welp588678tlj5hmtenv60w33d8sqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz40cmee When I don’t know where to go, I head to the trees and look up <br/><br/>#magicinthemundane #Nature #Trees<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/923/666/011/988/312/original/97b0a33aaa5249b1.png"> <br/> 2026-01-19T20:34:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs899a4uzqkyj4mype44cuxzy6cxseqjq4uee36m4gpgh8nnstmrmszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczrrkltu Which is stronger?<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2026-01-16T23:50:39Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfp5qeuep0lqkn80a4c7lehpwgqr8wuamkygd34qscfrk936qulngzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczx25mhf Is this a dream?<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2026-01-10T02:15:44Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8z0pzqv0ttv2j8sgut665vpgwegpqtlr2chjdrwt406npukk3c9qzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz4mpl6g Too many blogs full of too many tips on managing To Do lists are unhelpful and overwhelming. <br/><br/>They make me To Don’t. <br/><br/>What’s a good tip you actually use for task management?<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1pce2s47dfhdj4daddyext3lm0p0ceum57krzejtll7q2y3adpxmsdugeep" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Actually Autistics</span> (<span class="italic">npub1pce…geep</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1cvngvntculwlq06eckf34jke4gevn75ex03ss6fdmsth39rgmj7spgevqa" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Actually ADHD</span> (<span class="italic">npub1cvn…evqa</span>)</a></span> <br/><br/>#adhd #audhd #neurodivergent 2025-12-22T14:05:12Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspwz20ceky3wnw3enarcwgf20498dzznja2ynvqyckrnsmnavpwegzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcztqfpy8 Touch wood.<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/748/927/121/956/435/original/0acc3aae203040f6.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-12-19T23:55:08Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszk62wpgg52yussev2qmxgnj03anhvq9tgn97ynps4p4m96dn0njszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczukkz9v This felt like something from a book to me<br/><br/>#lichensubscribe #trees #nature #fungi<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/703/711/862/647/832/original/e7f53ef033f1adad.png"> <br/> 2025-12-12T00:16:40Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsd5mcu2qufhz9uqf5gtjcefn48z0m8x0sqklcscx40htqj7shuhugzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczrqct5z After 15 years in tech, I’m 3 months into working in a classroom. <br/><br/>This means I look at tech blogs less. <br/><br/>But when I do, I see how disconnected tech is from the rest of the world. <br/><br/>What I’ve learned: Nobody really cares about tech and often it’s making people’s jobs more difficult. <br/><br/>The aggrandizement of tech is a wank and the industry needs to take its collective head out of its ass. 2025-12-02T22:57:11Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvnk9u6stq8u05dndvwr0mx27v7wjxr3r88l9h5t7karg9lplxeqgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczvek45m Are you someone who posts online without editing or re-reading?<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2025-11-29T13:12:19Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2yca8t6yum0nr5pv7j0fqr2n0w94uskv6rmg0vc9gn2xfqrjxregzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczmu2hf8 “Look closely at the present you are constructing: it should look like the future you are dreaming.”<br/><br/>~ Alice Walker<br/><br/>We are where we focus. <br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1cvngvntculwlq06eckf34jke4gevn75ex03ss6fdmsth39rgmj7spgevqa" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Actually ADHD</span> (<span class="italic">npub1cvn…evqa</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1pce2s47dfhdj4daddyext3lm0p0ceum57krzejtll7q2y3adpxmsdugeep" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Actually Autistics</span> (<span class="italic">npub1pce…geep</span>)</a></span><br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/595/863/862/392/867/original/c9de2815123bb24f.png"> <br/> 2025-11-22T23:11:44Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsryyy90fltmwk9ydrnash5xmdrkdgrhhs89zm3kpz9ghj0q9w9lqszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczyfpl73 Falling asleep when unengaged/bored? <br/><br/>Even when you don’t want to?<br/><br/>Even if doing things like driving?<br/><br/>Turns out it’s a potential #adhd symptom 😕 2025-11-11T14:11:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspcfwqyqezjwftsf7ykc6umzf8r72arpd5kgf4rr0yulsatl2dr8czyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczlu8t4m #silentsunday #novascotia #Canada<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/482/458/121/962/629/original/b6c702606feb558a.png"> <br/> 2025-11-02T22:28:29Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv0x5r47n5tk6dlth29taxf7m5khjq0xvswuf3ywllxrjzuyeahnczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczjjcssx More rain lately has meant the fungi are back! <br/><br/>🥳🍄🍄‍🟫🥰<br/><br/>#sporespondence #fungi<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/437/190/339/988/424/original/5c8a08cc9d612f25.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/437/190/684/015/748/original/4e8648af6db457a5.png"> <br/> 2025-10-25T22:37:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvlf3tm2j66scv22g2dgj5nefpc6py9fac9l8w8r4fan0x44ndhzszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz5naet6 A day to smile 😃<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/115/266/677/288/007/495/original/84f6b9a515ea5e22.png"> <br/> 2025-09-25T19:52:55Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp729t2m4ufmzqfs90u4t5qzlut8vn4vtt4f8vs8w53tyafvgky9qzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczmx88ex Soooo it turns out that part of getting older involves acknowledging that what I can do with my body is changing, accepting it, and grieving that it’s no longer safe or prudent to do. <br/><br/>- signed, me in my early 40s wanting to do flips on the trampoline but understanding I can get hurt more easily now <br/><br/>What’s aging been like for you?<br/><br/>#SelfCare #aging 2025-08-02T19:26:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2uq99cufh3400v3uxfj6d40s5vx4dx9zqp5sd4f97ezjg9j02sjszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz9sjnza A question for men here. <br/><br/>Do you have a male friend that you could receive a hug from?<br/><br/>#menshealth 2025-07-04T10:15:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs89qcnlp82zd9u84f40d3qjlksn4xu2k2vjq98fhr97ut3wz6p73gzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz9qmyc5 #silentsunday<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/114/650/433/441/336/021/original/7813f90c4159dd42.png"> <br/> 2025-06-08T23:53:18Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgu6phf5c2glgv9j647g59qru3x5guw3znuynxa5ggv7ywzhn5pxqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczcvd7jz “I wish the fediverse was more _________”<br/><br/>#AskFedi #fillintheblank 2025-04-20T15:37:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2mj6yfh0d826nuxjr5wmjre6tv9t72djjw3rp7hmxm083fuafhyszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczdxc50r Ugh figuring out what to wear every day can be a lot. <br/><br/>I’m gonna try doing more of this:<br/><br/><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/W1IOq_lq3aw?feature=shared">https://youtube.com/shorts/W1IOq_lq3aw?feature=shared</a> 2025-04-06T12:26:18Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyv604nqszpa35u3xtpl0a4xq0tjjzm9en7fzrguxest00f78xd3szyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczctvtcg When do you feel most yourself?<br/><br/>#AskFedi #neurodivergent<br/><br/>Cc <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub10v4vhs3yx0g5lyw7wjn3arkqdazna5v7p237m79wc9lk6d5r72lsnls27h" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>ActuallyAutistic group</span> (<span class="italic">npub10v4…s27h</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub148jhm6u3tqxmufugd30tad52alndfsdv5el4fvz6pwagm7rpxlasrfucy6" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>actuallyadhd group</span> (<span class="italic">npub148j…ucy6</span>)</a></span> 2025-04-04T11:35:44Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0gephszmes9e72ep8hhwjvvfy4rhv6rr45putzdjqgahjj3wwdlqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczsp97pe Hey #fediverse ! What do you think?<br/><br/>A friend is someone who ____________________ <br/><br/>#AskFedi 2025-03-17T15:15:48Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs92tl8sslw9w32m4n0lkw9xvfn0h9te8fkdu3hk88h9vjktelec5szyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcza8zt5r Choose one<br/><br/>#askfedi 2025-02-16T15:03:01Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg5rxwc3nx6fmfpmsq0esyensvp0rgdd9eaalncpqe34pddwwqrzqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczeha6qs - 25C today but the coldest I’ve been out in I think is -46 or so 🤔❄️<br/><br/>Fun trick! <br/><br/>When it’s -40 or lower, if I squeeze my eyes tight or pinch my nose shut, they freeze closed instantly!<br/><br/>Go inside to fix. 😎<br/><br/>Definitely recommended to try if you are in that temperature :) 2025-01-22T12:47:58Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsrfuvpsfmsnr6vfenxr37a0jpy6xzfpkkdzwhqrext2vha0f930vgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz8uyfn2 #silentsunday #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/855/972/281/818/334/original/d9d536f200338676.png"> <br/> 2025-01-19T16:31:55Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9fa3rxuufgppz0x0g39w043ll7kny4jh2q7fmv6r0qkksp4plv9czyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczx95wxl Take a break and reconnect. 😌<br/><br/>🌲❄️<br/><br/>#frostodon #ice #Nature #waterfall<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/823/112/495/548/218/original/5c1519102732a70d.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-01-13T21:16:50Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspxkc7j4mnne8zl6ex6xaqa6klmmu857p2znmnc5snh00y6cwq9rgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczas6ga9 Winter sunsets around here are more subtle and (often my favourite).<br/><br/>#silentsunday #Sunset #nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/777/726/617/610/714/original/c16dd88f68e15208.png"> <br/> 2025-01-05T20:53:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs26jl52zkaf6ee44gvx4009dxgrhhk66xtthhhys02pwfgjgvlseqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz559je0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs283kn3gvpd0u8z6ezcze6xn0079c8a87lcztzlr4k3mtdw9l36gqkesf9d'>nevent1q…sf9d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>***Bonus for those feeling stuck in the gender binary! You can dress how you want, be who you want, identify how you want and still be you. Break free!*** 2025-01-04T16:48:36Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs283kn3gvpd0u8z6ezcze6xn0079c8a87lcztzlr4k3mtdw9l36gqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczhentwf I have been asked before how I could be nonbinary since I have a big beard. <br/><br/>So here is how, explained in 3 easy steps!<br/><br/>1) Be nonbinary<br/><br/>2) Dislike shaving<br/><br/>3) Prefer how I Iook with a beard. <br/><br/>Thank you for coming to my TED talk. <br/><br/>#NonBinary #enby #lgbtq 2025-01-04T16:46:00Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr0f50gwyzcd9dtc8hjn4up4vjq59mxk88qay2sz7r554we6hl3aszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczkwtq8c <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/749/096/178/971/473/original/09fd15088e04feba.png"> <br/> 2024-12-31T19:32:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst5a0elz6cfp6nq7073lk0lctlmfp5h34z9swzclakc4mdl5e3uzgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz007y80 It’s 2014 and you are thinking of 10 years from now. <br/><br/>What’s something you had not yet learned that you would have been surprised to have learned in the next 10 years (by 2024)?<br/><br/>#askfedi 2024-12-29T13:40:35Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgaa6g0znkrv7hrqu97relcgsv2ufsdfkvg546fh6t57hg06mjw9czyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczl5c0nf Having issues with a friend where the relationship is very one-sided. When we talk, the ratio of conversation is 20:1, as in they are talking 20x more than they are listening. <br/><br/>I am unsure how to remedy this as I don’t feel there is space to even bring it up. I’ve tried writing something and it was ignored and they talked about themself. <br/><br/>Not sure what my next step is. Seems like all that’s left is to fade out but I don’t want to hurt them<br/><br/>Any suggestions? 🤷<br/><br/>#AskFedi #friends #relationships 2024-12-26T14:15:46Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswwchzllxgm7ygv7aav76e7uryk0zkws9mmg4jf7a2ulkp376682gzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczpa4ks3 This is up for me. <br/><br/>What’s up where you are?<br/><br/>#joinin #thicktrunktuesday #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/709/536/037/954/542/original/b1f575f7edd18aa8.png"> <br/> 2024-12-24T19:51:40Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqdm9faymw6jgxqjtztgzj84pfq9q2tstzukzcw268z06mt7zte9czyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczcrwj38 “Decembers are hard.”<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2024-12-15T14:06:54Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8cvh8u6az4x4v8ym2au0hq7srzpz4frfxqt5gjdznezraclqjxzszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczqfsmf7 I grew up in the suburbs surrounded by dead things and now live rurally surrounded by trees<br/><br/>We don’t “own” nature; we ARE nature (but we don’t accept it)<br/><br/>We think we are special<br/><br/>I am OF this place I live, and OF these trees and plants and when I pass I hope to do as the trees do and become the soil as has been happening since plants began. It is how things already are and always have been. <br/><br/>We humans need to LET GO of control and stop centering our experience. <br/><br/>We ARE nature, it is not OURS<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/634/314/000/333/613/original/6278f5a8c7625eae.png"> <br/> 2024-12-11T13:00:29Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs927hkmk2l0ma2h2fsql0m9ujvf6fl09cc2ll7kuuahjp2zulzz4szyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczsvpn6r Self-portrait. <br/><br/>#WheresWaldo<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/624/928/609/918/021/original/973233114c81c837.png"> <br/> 2024-12-09T21:14:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdl4at223v4dv2ncwnmsyyz6wwtx027fxjj0knxc8u3llchxvweggzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczvaef62 Do the thing?<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2024-12-04T14:12:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2d5wlkxe9e32889aelry7st0e2078n7zt2vzas3f6xrw47atkdzczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz9nnd4c Dearest <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub10v4vhs3yx0g5lyw7wjn3arkqdazna5v7p237m79wc9lk6d5r72lsnls27h" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>ActuallyAutistic group</span> (<span class="italic">npub10v4…s27h</span>)</a></span> community,<br/><br/>It is with great interest that I recently binge watched the Netflix series “Geek Girl” and I am curious to know,<br/><br/>“OMGHaveYouSeenIt?!?WhatDidYouThink?!” 🙀🤯😻<br/><br/>#AuDHD 2024-12-04T11:42:09Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsdkrscpz84cls8p8fvzjvfct8d52fcfclle6lf62phy422f8554kszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczff9dfl When the leaves are all gone<br/>The colours are found<br/>Not up in the trees<br/>But low to the ground <br/><br/>#Mosstodon #Nature #Forest #lichensubscribe<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/546/797/592/394/013/original/c5f6f158997152c9.png"> <br/> 2024-11-26T02:05:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs09mkjtht7xs6xuzewm493dwqkfmhdpv4dmqwytcg4jhhw3c2rckczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczd33a78 In this moment, being on the internet makes me feel like I’m <br/><br/>#AskFedi #Tech #mentalhealth 2024-11-17T17:04:57Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswpgcsu53995hpetdnpe2vv88td3j3a7e0mu27q5uhgxeqgax8vyczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczglg8l2 A rose for you as a gentle start to the day 🥰<br/><br/>#bloomscrolling<br/>#Flowers<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/447/297/120/379/829/original/638e28d4cc4b7c33.png"> <br/> 2024-11-08T12:20:04Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs086u6ghedtv2uf2r8mn8l8cx2f74tqmeqy5jjrwsum7tm92hpgfqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczpkydgk I am walking up feeling helpless and hopeless, but beautiful things help me feel a bit more at ease. <br/><br/>So as I scroll my camera roll affer reading the news, I would like to share these flowers with you. <br/><br/>I am thankful to be able to have these to share.<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/435/494/020/633/201/original/386f5b40ec7b6ff4.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/435/494/418/573/877/original/818906ad3ee40127.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/435/494/747/346/408/original/052244a9857601eb.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/435/495/160/215/453/original/ef0b28c49758ee14.png"> <br/> 2024-11-06T10:20:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxhyqt2u9csapmem9tdgll7uhm4cqyvs6u09p7g5cvx4t27m2ypjqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczlq8rej I’ve been sick the last couple days and so my to do list has become a to didn’t list. <br/><br/>I was beating myself up over that when I suddenly realized that that would <br/><br/>1) make me feel worse <br/>2) not help with the list <br/>3) make me feel devalued as a human <br/>4) not be how I’d treat a friend who’d been sick. <br/><br/>So I’m going to treat myself like I’m the friend who had been sick, tell myself it’s ok, choose to let it go, breathe &amp; move forward. <br/><br/>Self-compassion takes practice!<br/><br/>#mentalhealth #AuDHD #adhd 2024-10-24T11:29:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8f9rftesay8y3q53uwctj6t7gc0ekn2szamkrephcdcfwf8mdukqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz9hyf37 Disconnect from the internet. <br/><br/>Life is the best network. <br/><br/>#silentsunday #Nature #Trees<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/340/527/067/718/631/original/cb16f021e6f79fc0.png"> <br/> 2024-10-20T15:48:30Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsyw5asz0u4m4llhvqr0zfuqfs0n2fu5v24zl80ccykwald5fcegxczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczqncw9u How we perceive ourselves depends on the light that is near us. <br/><br/>#mentalhealth #embiggen<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/305/698/268/217/373/original/5ec48d8351518c7c.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/305/698/989/133/295/original/d94505ee888d577e.png"> <br/> 2024-10-14T12:11:21Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswk5vympjn8rnd8mwezyktvymuw3yd3f8trc7asxscn3cy3my5zmgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczs68x85 It’s #FungiFriday dropping in with some birch polypore. 🍄‍🟫<br/><br/>#mushrooms #Nature #fall<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/290/500/516/240/124/original/d167b71765c676ba.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/290/501/108/507/760/original/bcf3db75a10ff46e.png"> <br/> 2024-10-11T19:46:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs8dr4j8nt3zhm9p770cf42dvjf5cu5z5xt7ntcv2vf85r6nr9sk7qzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczz6z684 “Don’t come to consensus, come to your senses.” <br/><br/>- Martha Beck<br/><br/>#Nature #mentalhealth #connections<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/277/242/009/085/238/original/bcd8441ad6c819d4.png"> <br/> 2024-10-09T11:33:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsd9hjzgr7um7nxyhlmh533qtah724g87ywgeal9s3jd9efjumpc8czyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczfncxy4 Seeing this one, I immediately understood why mushrooms are sometimes called toadstools. <br/><br/>This does seem to be a cozy spot for a friendly toad to sit! <br/><br/>#MushroomMonday #mushrooms #fungi #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/268/173/506/841/252/original/3c1a455e3cee6f42.png"> <br/> 2024-10-07T21:08:10Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsgntt9vha4murgv6zwau42ytuzkqrhgzk4q45jj2pvxzhlwjqmhwczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczj9lrhx #silentsunday<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/260/297/941/041/434/original/d931708ae8705080.png"> <br/> 2024-10-06T11:43:37Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg4xakxuydfhctzzyktaj960lyn2knymn2xx7drugxwwv2zzzxnrczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczt4zwnj Every leaf a flower <br/><br/>#Bloomscrolling #fall #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/256/321/952/031/335/original/146135229b874bbc.png"> <br/> 2024-10-05T18:53:30Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvhs0cje5ncefle996ncsne9ys6cgw04cmdtvant4l322dza5npjgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczfurfln Russel is a name and also a verb. <br/><br/>What are some others? <br/><br/>#AskFedi #verbnames 2024-10-01T01:12:23Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspfmszseevrh4m0yf6nyd4g5fheu4t8zegd6yse5sylaxe3t260gczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz6yvh32 #silentsunday #mushrooms<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/220/596/050/081/924/original/323a0aef9de2df0a.png"> <br/> 2024-09-29T11:27:28Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxmwn2nt3vt2cuwfw8ysd3m67h5h934c9esktwuw53dqlh0tc8rhszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczvkku0j I have never encountered soooooo many mushrooms in one place!<br/><br/>#fungi #mushrooms #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/204/666/029/201/583/original/d45856b35dcb8cd4.png"> <br/> 2024-09-26T15:56:22Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsglj7tuy40w2980emqy3yk5ty5dsrmuuxhvern92n5kva6drvlldqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz0pgsx6 Some BIG fungi is bursting out in the forest after we got the first rain in a long time! <br/><br/>#fungi #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/200/137/694/889/402/original/51ef12f127daf4ed.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/200/138/064/626/217/original/64bc9d5378a53cdc.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/200/138/493/510/174/original/8c7d37684de83fdd.png"> <br/> 2024-09-25T20:44:33Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqste3qktmysg2q2zt6774t0te76y4s0azq7l7pe7xpr9384z4r57mszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcza4cp5m Goooooood morning sunshine! <br/><br/>May your day be beautiful! 😍 <br/><br/>#silentSUNday #fungi #Nature #mushrooms<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/180/856/113/027/678/original/57333a5666845f41.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/180/856/510/270/076/original/6e6417382a71a28a.png"> <br/> 2024-09-22T11:03:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsg9x3vtgsr8sy2mxm4lu3su6w8d0ws9jxzcw64r7zsjne7p7af37gzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczxyleyk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx4mvaqjl9zhfq7zedv79xsnf526n8g392gs9c6ezeudj7lrnjhkcht2qs8'>nevent1q…2qs8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>gotchya! Thanks for that. When I asked myself that same question, I was standing and doing dishes and the answer I quickly received was “legs” ! Like I’m in my head and torso. 🤷🤔Which is why I was asking the question 2024-09-21T13:53:24Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs25m5zg3g0e0899khfdexhttt5n72se3s4v9qjam8avwyfsahf5uqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczz89mk5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy6z6x8tqvah90gwyjf0f5cxj6dwmzuwg70m9ktnl0pvnetzhwp6g5alh87'>nevent1q…lh87</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🤔 like if I asked what is “immediately below “you” “ would it be chest? Or outside the body? 2024-09-21T13:41:05Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswkrk95ec4se86ex6jzavy2mwme83wmcprfmvcnucgra0nyqf2kjszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczjql7sh Where do YOU exist in this moment?<br/><br/>🤔<br/><br/>#AskFedi 2024-09-21T13:30:15Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs2jhy3we8afkzqgw79nnf5fgr5pa5wz65svllygxvslp3m07e3erszyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczp96jfa Wee ones growing<br/><br/>#fungi #Nature<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/175/582/960/337/997/original/7264ad347bd8c0a7.png"> <br/> 2024-09-21T12:40:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqszkrgpqrteyuqr6k82sltm0y9z624f59n4k0qk7ygacsh3nsd53zczyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczc9aru5 A plum year. <br/><br/>#Gardening #Food #fruitswithfruit #yassqueenokurrr<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/076/649/162/311/351/original/84828c4e2a8ef372.png"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/076/655/106/808/324/original/d774d6ceb6ef0f2f.png"> <br/> 2024-09-04T01:21:13Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsqe4rndfwr4325l6x6huwfgjtfrq6aeyk9au7tuu8twsuzaeyjqvgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcztqz7t5 When you still live at home with your parents, but it is #Caturday evening and you are waiting to be picked up for a cRaZy night out. <br/><br/>#CatsOfMastodon<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/059/226/989/261/297/original/853ce7d187d0d2f5.jpeg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/059/226/968/853/092/original/765d9ad5d814cdaa.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-31T23:31:08Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsf88j50qzdj90kx2003dlz9ycg8d9h74upgzcedx0nz6haefaushgzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgcz5e2a73 Like beings from another planet. <br/><br/>But no!<br/><br/>There is so much diversity of life here on Earth!<br/><br/>🥰<br/><br/>#fungi #mushrooms #Nature #sporespondence<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/113/057/117/939/300/467/original/5751d1171df0dfc8.jpeg"> <br/> 2024-08-31T14:34:15Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0jwfjydkun4dhew6jhken7wkf0vdqng0za8546dz5hu2z74kc8sqzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczuzayx9 Please.<br/><br/>PLEASE.<br/><br/>Unfollow me if you do not support the right of ALL people to determine their own path in life.<br/><br/>#trans #HumanRights 2024-08-19T00:20:30Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsvzupk463uff26pjg0f6602ysrjnwkmk6xf6myhau2xxq644j2s8qzyqu6rdr4axc7k2ckxd3me7pkuvqlyw2vpndpel8mfah44f8jqsgczstkv8y This neato white moth would not leave my arm as I watered the garden.<br/><br/>I tried dropping it off on branches, or leaves but nothing. <br/><br/>I took this photo to see what it was and then learned it was called an <br/><br/>&#34;Agreeable Tiger Moth&#34;<br/><br/>Indeed it was! <br/><br/>😆<br/> <img src="https://media.mstdn.social/media_attachments/files/112/943/851/126/241/834/original/695155f5b7e3a893.png"> <br/> 2024-08-11T14:29:23Z