2024-10-21T03:15:52Z https://yabu.me nova (they/them) https://yabu.me/npub17fgs9afxke24fl6cjeclg07ylj703ha288vtmp3t6kkzzcsgceqs064ey7 https://s3.kitsunes.club/storage/webpublic-f4e8c91e-2e19-4537-b3d2-b87d680f3bd4.png https://s3.kitsunes.club/storage/webpublic-f4e8c91e-2e19-4537-b3d2-b87d680f3bd4.png https://yabu.me/nevent1qqst8k9epjqdlfxwqz35rmwcgfl3ytsfz8h29rdx4sretu6dfea7p9gzyre9zqh4y6m9248ltzt8raplcn7te7xl4gua30vx9026cgtzprryzmemlkc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrjvfd033tsyuv6fldxggknapx0tgpapd6qu9el9nywys2ac8nt9c9dxg4m'>nevent1q…xg4m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>100% our local scene is just incredible. and our local culture, mind blowingly better than other small (and large) towns. i’m grateful we live where we do and continue to be mind blown by stumbling on a place that seems to be so far ahead of… most other places in north america, it seems. 2024-10-21T01:28:47Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp0kdamnnarp6amj928weljc4x6h63j7nvwsvqa5cm28uvtfgwm6qzyre9zqh4y6m9248ltzt8raplcn7te7xl4gua30vx9026cgtzprryzhehf7w In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswsl3rngyjhnpuxw6gykv5mg80xjzv0lm0rz7w2d83ffuql42fafqna44l8'>nevent1q…44l8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>like i get i’m spoiled by my local drag and burlesque scene for being so fucking queer and inclusive and progressive and shit, but fuck. this was even grosser than i imagined of a fetishization for the cishet eye (and even the cis gay man eye).<br/><br/>i just want queer joy in drag not this depressing misgendering survival shit.<br/><br/>i hope these ladies made lots of $ today and i’m sorry a fucking cis man is the host of fetishizing them. 2024-10-21T01:01:52Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswsl3rngyjhnpuxw6gykv5mg80xjzv0lm0rz7w2d83ffuql42fafqzyre9zqh4y6m9248ltzt8raplcn7te7xl4gua30vx9026cgtzprryzl9wr7k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswqq78sqn5k2yeya4frwszsdlz5tq86v7lxcdk6ez36lkhw9tdncccxhjyg'>nevent1q…hjyg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>of five performers, one very clearly announced himself a gay man - the host. the other four said nothing of their gender. of those four, three seemed to be clearly trans femme or enby or otherwise not cis in some way… but honestly i lean towards all four were.<br/><br/>and yet the host repeatedly looked to sentiments of “men” and “female impersonators” and shit like that<br/><br/>it had me feeling so gross because like, this is SO CLEARLY for the cishet gawk (as i should have predicted) but it just ran so much deeper and transphobic than expected 2024-10-21T00:58:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswqq78sqn5k2yeya4frwszsdlz5tq86v7lxcdk6ez36lkhw9tdncczyre9zqh4y6m9248ltzt8raplcn7te7xl4gua30vx9026cgtzprryzkg0twp also horrified by the vibes from drag brunch<br/>not from the performers or anything like that, most were amazing<br/>but so much deeper 2024-10-21T00:55:22Z