2025-12-21T23:09:28Z https://yabu.me Diary of Paracelsus’s Rose https://yabu.me/npub15nrqppcvl3p3tanm3yz4d5zzlawhzyycr99v0qzl8ktr5saad0fqmxwpkp https://media.deadinsi.de/accounts/avatars/000/021/626/original/a8522a816d605a55.png https://media.deadinsi.de/accounts/avatars/000/021/626/original/a8522a816d605a55.png https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsquhduu4yzdcfxr3v28glqtahe8wpf3qc9tmjfwpezazp2ugxt6vgzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44aymg9e2x Some myths about deadnames and deadnaming<br/><br/>- “it’s just a trans thing”: cis people can have deadnames too, for many many reasons. It’s not just a special concern of trans people. One common reason is that a name can be connected to an abusive family member, and they may be powerless to change it formally and publicly. Another is the adoption of a name for oneself as a rite of passage.<br/><br/>- “all former/assigned-at-birth names of trans people are deadnames”: not all trans people have deadnames. Practices about names vary widely across cultures, languages and groups. For example I don’t consider my “wallet name” dead, and it isn’t a gendered name and doesn’t make gender dysphoria worse. Meanwhile I choose to not use it day to day because many people have trouble pronouncing it (or recognizing it as a name!)<br/><br/>I think the rejection of deadnaming shouldn’t be understood as a dogmatic issue but as a practice of care, about caring of the real other. 2025-12-21T19:14:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfg9caahules07kgjtk52uk0jp4hmwx2pxt7a0fp9ynpfz9mtjjkczyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ayc8x6rq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrjympfrfwnrsh2pme9hx77g49l69ycudtpd3u0zsyn95vullrzrcpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z74sfngx'>nevent1q…fngx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kytcqyqfctpzgfdkvk3plzw6eughv2ykycgtzhrg5qq8c7x37qs78aywgckllx0q" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kytcqyqfctpzgfdkvk3plzw6eughv2ykycgtzhrg5qq8c7x37qs78aywgckllx0q</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…lx0q</span>)</a></span> this is hard for me to believe, but I trust your observations. I wonder why they behave the way you describe they do? What is it about personal websites that they fear or hate? 2025-12-17T18:27:07Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs9av2gh007atzrgtvwmesua8m04wlayht76jwv5lax056vpjsrsmgzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ayfkgpsu Yes chatgpt uses em dashes, but my em dashes are emmer and dasher than their em dashes. 2025-12-11T00:21:32Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsggsyx779uk58xf0m7he7fhkfvuf5n6pxzdzfuzzl3ppkx54savkgzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ayq7q8cf The existence of mammoth implies the existence of sirbutterfly 2025-11-22T18:21:36Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs0mwwfj2l29ca8wyxpu02jnp0yafhvhttgg2u2yvuvwz6h2vcpptqzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ay2t57ry In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxghv7p3n0e29372kte6xcmr29ufmf320jqdg3jvs4ha7xf5tfyecpzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerfw36x7tnsw43z7vm5jsy'>nevent1q…5jsy</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kytcqyqfctpzgfdkvk3plzw6eughv2ykycgtzhrg5qq8c7x37qs78aywgckllx0q" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kytcqyqfctpzgfdkvk3plzw6eughv2ykycgtzhrg5qq8c7x37qs78aywgckllx0q</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…lx0q</span>)</a></span> seriously wtf 2025-11-18T14:16:41Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqswnc7ru6wl0pl064msk88gdj39wvrczepae5ngf24uj6s8gd0jq0gzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ayfm4chr Trans 2025-11-08T02:36:43Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsp9yd52u8hkcrcq5h8ud3m4m09p79538qa6462776l5c7jvt67w7qzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ay5uf6sy This must be the food of the math goddesses.<br/><br/> <img src="https://media.deadinsi.de/media_attachments/files/115/509/787/640/498/130/original/3b050cd3486834d3.jpg"> 2025-11-07T18:19:26Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs92k9z3t9jxmdrn4wff5x7ezxrcrjxwp0dnq3r7w2dc9cqgdlj8xgzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44aywykrrh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszxflpcr58j0474qwlv37cmyl0930556cqtuq8a0mp3cxyl7v8cmqpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qnptt3r'>nevent1q…tt3r</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpq0ae605fgpw08r8d2u7u65wu82n5n02gzv4wef797z5dk7g3w8smqz8zuq0" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpq0ae605fgpw08r8d2u7u65wu82n5n02gzv4wef797z5dk7g3w8smqz8zuq0</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…zuq0</span>)</a></span> it roughly reads “human made these eyes out of rock by art and skill. Now this wonder is used to learn about the universe”. It’s a bit contrived and not very idiomatic. 2025-04-07T12:13:49Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsfaqnywacvspele9az8hwtrmvx2t5vg85fnwsmwu4xnna7968yh4czyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44aynd5ns7 Something I felt very strongly last evening —<br/><br/>It’s important to share good news with our friends. Any good news. Especially the kind that they could not have been aware of otherwise — things happening IRL around me, like a nice interaction with my neighbors, a flower I saw, some sensation that brought me satisfaction, for example.<br/><br/>Sharing good news is important because many of us are stressed, and bearing witness to good things is an antidote.<br/><br/>Sharing IRL, personal, super-local good news is important, because media centralizes our experiences, but sharing our own stories is how we expand empathy beyond the manufactured realities, like how moss and funguses grow and reclaim the habitat. 2025-04-02T13:53:51Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs090qqssx38awjerjhpnl3vqygq8zltw94ctrkcdd8nw9r9v5s5rczyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ay7r6acm #OOTD (outfit of the day) for #TDoV (trans day of visibility) — due to lighting my eyes look green!! Actually I have dark brown eyes.<br/><br/>(Edit: you can boost this, yes!)<br/><br/> <img src="https://media.deadinsi.de/media_attachments/files/114/257/663/089/610/672/original/529cf61b00e6cd31.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.deadinsi.de/media_attachments/files/114/257/663/336/938/753/original/e521d2a0576c4b12.jpg"> 2025-03-31T15:10:44Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsxudcmwy8k5f203jv65p86rq5ey5x7wtpz79ghxxcfp47fv4f7rpszyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44aydsfsfu Please use CW when you post distressing videos like kidnapping in streets. Even if it’s from reputable news organizations and even if it’s important.<br/><br/>I implore you. Please. 2025-03-26T23:55:19Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsv2gt7qkl8jjfmtc7x7xvjxv8qnmnund0zk36lx3hehxh2fysql4qzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ay6mee6f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxz5lalhczymnm54un0dgjaj9uv5hntjxvm8xxaja4tfgwyh8uplgpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qgstmyf'>nevent1q…tmyf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqzdp33shl69xr0uq3x8n5gsjykq9upycwh6nqm02c3f6x0frrn0dqftargs" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqzdp33shl69xr0uq3x8n5gsjykq9upycwh6nqm02c3f6x0frrn0dqftargs</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…args</span>)</a></span> glass can indeed be made naturally after meteorite strikes. I guess ceramics could be possible in certain conditions but I’m not sure. 2025-03-24T19:28:46Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqsr62e6xhyncmgfa4nm6cm2eslxhc6avghuru6xqjuf59japm28ncczyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ayq5wqng In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrz9qnd9ruxpvu2zj7uuzu7plfjwx3gc9q6gympps70yvv0k3jmwcpz4mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumt0wd68ytnsw43qettfwt'>nevent1q…tfwt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqzdp33shl69xr0uq3x8n5gsjykq9upycwh6nqm02c3f6x0frrn0dqftargs" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqzdp33shl69xr0uq3x8n5gsjykq9upycwh6nqm02c3f6x0frrn0dqftargs</span> (<span class="italic">nprofile…args</span>)</a></span> <br/>I exchange messages so often<br/>We&#39;re all the queen&#39;s children<br/>And we are many friends<br/>And all of them are with me 2025-03-12T03:05:32Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqs29cfa7k3lh090nn0cvq6ysylymqqqqd8jn3jyrlrzyqnlajw680czyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44ayux9e8u We are a very small minority group. That’s okay; it’s just a fact.<br/><br/>That doesn’t make us “the canary in the coal mine”.<br/><br/>The canaries are supposed to DIE. That’s why they put them there in the first place!<br/><br/>And the premise is that invisible odorless insta-kill toxic gas in the mine is inevitable; you need to manage the risk.<br/><br/>But a society is not meant to be a coal mine! We should not accept the idea that the society *can* be this bad. Because that will immediately lead to “it *ought* to be this bad”, in practice.<br/><br/>Don’t normalize the coal mine! 2024-12-12T18:43:59Z https://yabu.me/nevent1qqspsjeum6v2ge8gxqajqfxmmyqu5x9q6ygrurgdg0yjv5v78k3zdlgzyzjvvqy8pn7yx90k0wys24ksgtl46ugsnqv543uqtu7evwjrh44aylmwsx2 yā niśā sarvabhūtānāṃ tasyāṃ jāgarti saṃyamī |<br/>yasyāṃ jāgrati bhūtāni sā niśā paśyato muneḥ || 2.69<br/><br/>In what is night to all life, the self-controlled one is wide awake;<br/>When all beings awaken, it is night to the devotee with fierce vision.<br/><br/>#nitecrew 2023-01-27T17:36:41Z