I've done it by:
- app switching for zap sending
- NWC from MinibitsCash (nprofile…l3vp) for send/receive
- receiving to coinoswallet (nprofile…c5ke), Minibits, or npub.cash while sending from my Start9 (nprofile…w0xz) NWC using my own node
Everybody seems to really like Alby (nprofile…qvd6) Hub for this, also, but I haven't tried it yet. All these seem to work. Just have to pick your favorite flavor.