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2024-04-25 17:42:42

RickThrivingNow on Nostr: ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€? Many humans have ...

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€?

Many humans have given up before they even start because of a limiting belief like, "If you can't be The Best โ€” The Winner! โ€” it's not worth it."

But what is this belief standing on? It stands first on a belief that hierarchy is what matters โ€” being at the top of the pyramid, the winner, the gold medalist, the champion โ€” The Best Ever. It's true that in many cultures we still focus acclaim on those who succeed "above all others."

This limiting belief, unfortunately, suppresses thriving. Why? Because Thriving flows from an ecosystem of experiences and skills that work in synergy. Someone who sings happily in the shower may never sing on stage or for moneyโ€ฆ yet their joy can feed their heartistry in other areas.

Culture can thoughtlessly communicate such a belief. A parent, teacher, or preacher can make it explicit with edicts like:

"You do not have the body of a dancer, so don't even think about it."
"People like us don't get to do things like that."
"You'll never succeed that that. You're not smart/pretty/rich/powerful enough."
We say, "If it feels good when you dance, you're a good dancer!"

Family and cultural beliefs often do not fit the freedoms available today (and even more tomorrow!). Their truthiness comes from their usefulness for safety and survival in the past. In their archaic yet strongly held status as "what just IS," there's profound suppression of what's Possible.

It takes courage to explore the limiting beliefs we have. They can be painful! The process benefits from looking deeply, honoring how and where the belief formed in you, how it has been reinforced, and how it probably helped keep you protected and safe โ€” even if it also diminished you.

Address how it feels in your body with a tool like EFT Tapping. Then do the hearty work of discovering and putting energy into the belief that feels more Youโ€ฆ that contributes to your thrivingโ€ฆ now and going forward.

https://www.thrivingnow.com/concept/limiting-beliefs
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