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Who you are marrying today will not be the same person many years from now, which brings new meaning to the word "them", as your partner will be many people through your time with them. No one grows together at the same speed nor in the same way. Love them through their change, giving them loving safe space to heal their past wounds, and loving safe space so they explore their dreams and opportunities. Eventually you or your partner will leave you, by choice or not. If you remember that daily, you have a better chance in loving them fully, in the present, for although we pass through time slowly, time passes through us quickly. Imagine how unbelievably miraculous it is that you are breathing right now, from the big bang, to a fully conscious being... now add the fact that you found the love of your life, and it becomes and infinite probability. Cherish that understanding, no matter what they do... the capacity to love someone else is only bound to capacity you have to love yourself.